Is it possible that you could love someone so much that you are afraid that God might take them away from you? I mean I have been really in love with this guy that I met and we work together but I think that he might have the same feelings for me. Has said it but is it just because it was said... I think that I want to be waking up with him everyday just to see him smile and even when he looks at me its great. Then here it is the ex is trying to make a come back and I'm really thinking that I'm fighting a battle that I have already lost do you think that I should continue because I can't stop loving him no matter how I try to convince myself. I have convinced myself of a lot of things even getting out of smoking by saying that I am not a smoker lol but this one I don't think I could get out of. Then there is the saying rather be alone than be unhappy and the only way that I'm unhappy is if he is unhappy. Think that I should still try to make things work or throw in the towel?
2007-01-20 15:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel thiz guy iz the one then you should never throw in the towel. You need to tell thiz guy exactly how you feel. I know many girls that have tried to lie to themselves about loving another guy to get over him, but it alwayz ends up the same, it could be a week or a year, you alwayz end up admitting to yourself that you love him. Dont let nething get in you way and follow your heart, weather it take you to him or someone else.
2007-01-20 16:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.XXX 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get in the ring and fight for your love! The only way the ex can get in there is if she senses your weakness. She is his ex for a reason. Don't throw in the towel. You have a lot to offer and he just needs to be reminded of this often.
Best wishes to you.
2007-01-21 00:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by NeckLover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont completely understand ur question but i'll try.
for the god thing i doubt god would take someone like that away unless you needed to be punished severely but i dont know what hes thinking up there so yea...
now i think ur saying u wanna try love with the new guy if so YES i think you should try to make it work, i dont even understand why you would question it
now if ur talking about trying it with ur ex NO the way you described that other guy , it makes me wanna line my family up to try and get with him just so he'd be family (after the wedding obviously) but yea.... um i think you should try the new guy but anyways ur heart will tell when the time comes
2007-01-21 00:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by not me but you 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is strange you would put it that way, but I have that thought also sometimes as well, but it is regarding my child. This is cliche, but if it is meant to be, then it will be, but that doesn't mean you have to give up. I wouldn't pledge my eternal love to him just yet, but keep letting him know that you are interested.
2007-01-21 00:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by mekeygabriel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Throw in the towel!
2007-01-21 00:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and give it time to see how it works out.
2007-01-21 00:10:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to guy outside of work and see if your both on the same page
2007-01-21 00:01:49 · answer #7 · answered by resigned 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep on trying, cuz u neva no wat'll happen if u dont try and u mite regret not trying later
2007-01-21 00:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by lalalua 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God would never take them away.
2007-01-21 00:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋