Okay, I think my cruch knows that I like him. How am I suposed to deal with the embaressment? Juicy news travels fast at my school! This may not seem like a big deal, but it is because:
1) He likes someone else
2) I am in Juinor High and have never had a boyfriend so I don't know how to ask him out
3) I don't think he likes me back!
2007-01-20 15:50:43 · 29 answers · asked by Meme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's totally normal to feel embarassed about liking a boy, especially since you are in Junor High. All girls have crushes in school at some time or another. They are phases that everyone goes through. I think you're too young to have a boyfriend and I think you should concentrate on school and family right now. You have the rest of your life ahead of you to find your one and only. Now is not the time to find him. Of course you can have crushes, that's great but I wouldn't go any further than that! If he doesn't like you than that's ok, just get over him, it's not a big deal. I also suggest you only tell the people you trust personal information so it doesn't get around school so fast! Good luck!
2007-01-20 15:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by journeythroughlife85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think about it, who did you tell this news to in the first place? Next time, don't tell them anything anymore. A lesson learnt. I'm sure he's flattered that someone likes him and if you're not too shy, why not approach him sometime, and introduce yourself personally to him (if you and him are strangers). Tell him that while it's true that you have feelings for him, apologize that he is a subject of gossip now in school. Tell him that maybe you guys can hang out together when the gossip have cooled down and offer him your friendship. If you wanna be sure he's the guy you like, this would be the time. He will either accept you or reject you. If he does, he's really a jerk because image is too important to him that he's reacting immature, and hurting a girl's pride. Hopefully you have a good taste in him and not just because he's good looking on the outside or anything. What's important is the inside. Don't worry too much about having a boyfriend, you're still so young and should enjoy your freedom more with friends. Relationship takes time to build, so don't rush into it. It will happen if it's meant to be. Good luck.
2007-01-21 00:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this age boys are like water. They take the course of least resistance.
Be careful what you want it may not be what you need.
You're in Jr.high, the land of boys who try to act cool and have little or no idea whats going on.
All you have to do, is stay clean and well groomed , see who's eyeballing you.
Introduce yourself. Be friendly and approachable. The boys will fall out of the trees. Take the time to really know them.
Never let a boy know you have a crush, this is when they become really dumb and begin to act like aliens.
Good luck.
P.S. while you are on the prowl , this other guy may also come around.
I wish you the best of luck.
2007-01-21 00:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK- unless you want to consider moving to Paraguay or having reconstructive facial surgery don't sweat it. You like this guy or have a crush, big deal, but it doesn't mean you have to obsess on him as well. Play it cool and if cornered about it or asked, say "yeah I was infatuated for a time but then I met this really great guy on the internet (uh, yeah well it was worth a try- anyway, I digress).
If the guy doesn't like you back- time to move on. Don't let it worry you too much. Unless the guy is gay, he will be flattered by your attention even though you may not be compatible.
2007-01-20 23:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by RHJ Cortez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If anyone actually makes fun of you for it (which I doubt will happen, EVEN behind your back), they have major problems and should probably be in some serious therapy. No one is going to remember this even a year from now. It's really not that big a deal at all, though I know it seems like it right now.
2007-01-20 23:55:27 · answer #5 · answered by PopeJaimie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh lord, this was the story of my life at one point.
1) YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND a) to be happy or b) in jr. high!
2) its a lot easier to be self confident and then ask out boys as opposed to the other way around.
3)okay, so he knows. hold your head up and ignore the whispers. its really the most dignified option you've got. if people think that you don't care that they know about your crush, then they'll just stop caring. seriously.
4) YOU DON'T NEED A BOYFRIEND!
2007-01-21 00:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by xyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up to this boy and find out if he likes you or someone else. Sometimes people are just to scared to tell people how they feel, when they finally get enough courage, it is usually to late to do anything about it as the other person has moved on.
2007-01-20 23:57:51 · answer #7 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but you pretty much said it all on #1 He likes someone else. Don't embarass yourself now is not the right time for you. You can still smile at him and be friendly but back off a little.
2007-01-20 23:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is to get a bunch of friends and forget about him unless he asks you out. get friends and when someone is interested in you, they will ask you out. If you read many of the questions here you will see that having a boyfriend can sometimes be more trouble than it is worth while you are still in school!
2007-01-20 23:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing happened/happening to me! basically, you dont need to worry. I mean, everyone knows you like him. big deal. to sort it out, go up to him and act just a little flirty and stupid (boys like girls who play a little dumber than them) and say "so i guess u heard how I liked you" and he'll say "yeah" rght? then just say "well, sorry if you dont feel the same way about me." then pause to see if he says anything (as in anything like but i do like you) and then say "hormones are a handful" and laugh a little. then casually say "see you around" and walk of. now he knows that you have the confidence to go up to him instead of hiding, and thats good. and exucse me, but if he likes someone else, why are u trying to ask him out?! oh but if he does like someone else go up to him now and again and be friends!!! like say i heard you like blah blah then talk about homework and teachers and movies and sports. the only thing missing from the word friend is boy, so its not a big deal. better a friend to him than some crazy girl who has a crush on him!! hope it helps and good luck xoxoxoxo
2007-01-20 23:58:46 · answer #10 · answered by ♥hollywood honey♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋