Ok, well there's this guy who i know a lot, and who hardly talked or even chatted with me. and now suddenly he starts to chat with me, I don't know why, but he seems so interested in chatting with me. Thought sometimes he takes a long time to im me back. I want to know, if possible, if he is using me, or if he likes me? He's a little older than me.
2007-01-20 15:47:32 · 15 answers · asked by mercedes v 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends really. if he's really diggin' u, u should put him into situations where he has to talk to u about it or if he has the guts he should have asked u out. but dont always count on just pinning him down like that just study what he says and think to yourself if he really is using u.
2007-01-20 15:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by cooler_azn_than_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all id just like to say ur not giving me alot to work with but i'll give the best anwser i can.
now ask yourself these questions.
#1 did he recently see a pic of you before he began talking to you
#2 did you begin to ignore him
#3 did somthing bad happen to him
#4 did you for no apparent reason start acting like a swinger
#5 did he get shot in the *** by cupid
Now if the anwser of those questions is yes heres a possible explanation.
#1 if he saw ur pic he might think you look good and be all for you because of your body or somthing (using you)
#2 if you ignored him he might have felt a lack of attention or just thought you didnt care and got jeleous (using you)
#3 if somthing bad happened to him he might be setting you up to tell you about it because he trust you for some reason (not using you)
#4 he likes the new you and wants to claim you like a shallow asshole. (using you)
#5 .... cupid rules all( love) (not using you)
2007-01-20 15:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by not me but you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using you? What is he using, your chat? I thought you had to have some contact to be used? How come all I'm asking is questions when I'm supposed to be giving an answer? I'm so confused!
2007-01-20 15:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you did something to make him to want to talk to you. And there is a possibility that he likes you and wants to get to know you.
2007-01-20 15:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by spoiled lil' princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that he is older then u i think that he is talking to someone that is his are or that he is not wanting to take this to fast and that he is not the talking type and he might have alot going on and i think that u need to just see where with it is going
2007-01-20 15:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by megryanmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahaha well the key thing is do u like him back? same thing happend to me.. and he even acts like he likes me but i don't like him back so it doesn't matter just state that u want to be friends if you dont like him.. and it wont seem as bad that he is "using you" even tho he may not be.
2007-01-20 15:51:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand what you mean by using you. If you mean just to have someone to talk to when he's board then you have look at when is it he contacts you.
2007-01-20 15:53:44 · answer #7 · answered by lifeisbeautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kinda does sound like he likes you, but you should just get to know him a little before deciding
just wait and be patient
2007-01-20 15:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by Erin Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for heaven sake it is only a conversation not the book of rules.
2007-01-20 15:52:13 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he is trying to get to know you aliitle before asking you out,steady and at your pace
2007-01-20 15:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by resigned 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋