2007-01-20 15:46:16 · 13 answers · asked by Estrella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys sometimes want to see what they can STILL get from you. We are broke up, but let's see if she still hugs me. we are broke up but let's see if she'll still kiss me. (Can i touch, can we hold hands, can i still HIT THAT- meaning to have sex with a person, Do i still have acces to this person's body, mind, and spirit. Do i still have control. Can we be friends with benefits.) They want to see how much power they still have over you, and maybe if there's a chance to get back together. Some guys get used to one person and that's all they want. They want to see what YOU will let them get away with. They might not be willing to change, but they still know what they want. YOU! If they can pull you back in any way they will do it. My advice if is if you are through with them then make it known if they approach you.
2007-01-20 15:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by serious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No closure. If you need to move on from a relationship
that's not working, you need to end it permanently by
spending time with the person and gently but with
conviciton telling them that you're growing and changing
in a different direction . Don't dredge up old arguments
or events that may have had an influence on the breakup,
be kind, give them a hug goodbye and don't offer the
old "we can still be friends" line. The season's over.
2007-01-21 00:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys just bother u cus they might think that they can use u for anything
some other guys might be in love and would not wanna lose you and they would wanna be with u forever
some guys would just want to show you off cus they might think ur very pretty and might want to keep you from going out with other people
BYE
2007-01-20 23:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalkers
2007-01-20 23:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation, my ex-boyfriend of 8 months, just won't leave me alone. He is constantly following me around in school, sending me e-mails, writing letters. I'm TIRED of it. So, what I had to do was tell his a.s.s we will never get back togther again, and for him to leave me alone! Sometimes you gotta be rude, to let him know!
2007-01-20 23:50:45 · answer #5 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes what you can't have is a big attraction...plus, guys learn to not give up easily...it's in our blood, we like to chase.
2007-01-20 23:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Steelhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he still likes you or just would get to jealous to see you with another guy because he cant get another gal./or just to act worried about u or pretend to care so you take him back and he can get in your pants???
2007-01-20 23:51:00 · answer #7 · answered by ditsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can['t stand rejection but if it gets too bad, file a police report if tt gets to the point where they are stalking you!!
2007-01-20 23:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because they don't actually want it to be over yet.
2007-01-20 23:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by JILL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because girl you got the right stuff.
2007-01-20 23:50:14 · answer #10 · answered by foxie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋