so this guy and i were really compatible and we were going out for a while.... he starts talking about a family and getting married and spending our lives togetether... then he tells me he loves me... i wait for a while and say it back.... then he wants to break up and doesn't give a reason for it.... does this seem weird to anyone else.... my friends think that he was cheating on me but i don't think so and i have no proof.... opinions are greatly appreciated...
thanks
Nicole Ashley
2007-01-20 15:43:07 · 6 answers · asked by nicole ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just trying to get in ur pants, if theres not a reason he was a waste of time anyways. dont let him give you a stupid reason either. i think just about every guy uses the i love you right off the bat to get some.
2007-01-20 15:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. Your relationship started with infidelity. Let us say that you get what you want. He breaks up with his current girlfriend and starts dating you. But can you really trust him? Lets say that he goes to a party without you. I would bet any amount of money that you will worry if he is with some other girl. I always say if you lose sleep because of your significant other the relationship is soon over. You are in love and can not see clearly. This guy is not someone you want to invest yourself to. The longer you wait the harder you will fall and the more hurt you will get when you break up. So I would tell you to run and run fast. But I don't think you will listen. Cause you are not thinking with your brain, but with your heart.
2016-05-24 03:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just sound like he confused about his feeling which is normal
since you and he have only been dating a short time, so just
let him have the space to get it together,but dont let it bother
you so much if he really want to get with you he will. it will
work it self out if it going to happen.
2007-01-20 15:48:59 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i gues u cant say that its prooof of cheating but it seems likee since u didnt say it back he got "frustrated" and left. BEST OF LuCk all my wishes to u.
2007-01-20 15:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude i think he was just trying to get in your pants
2007-01-20 15:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by stumped on physics 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him y he is breaking up with u and den ask if he was cheatin on u
2007-01-20 15:47:08 · answer #6 · answered by deyaunna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋