Ok, there is this guy at school, and i really like him. We are really good friends, we talk like all the time. But here is the question... does he like me?? Should I ask him out?? I am sooo confused...I have heard a couple of times that he likes me....so what should I do? I have asked him out once...he said maybe....but then never gave me a definate answer, but I am too scared to ask him out...so, what should I do?!?!?! Please help me!!!
2007-01-20 15:14:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem like a very smart girl and I am sure if you like this guy you shouldn't wait until somebody pops up in the picture.
You say you're friends. That's a great start! So you should now a little about what he likes and what his hobbies are.
Use that and play with it. Example: if he likes movies tell him there is a really good movie you want to go see but you don't want to go alone. Ask him if he wants to go see it with you. Go dutch unless he really insists on paying. Don't you offer to pay because it will look like your trying to buy him. OR if he likes to ski, or whatever pretend to be interested and ask him to show you how to do it.
You have to make him feel that you like being around him, and you have to do things to make him like being around you.
Don't push it, seeing you already asked him and he said maybe...just open the door a crack and than see if he opens it all the way.
Good Luck
2007-01-20 15:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by keeptrying4sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a tough spot girly. I am in the same place right now, I'm just waiting it out for him to do the asking. From the looks of your situation though... I asked a guy once if he liked me like i liked him and he sed maybe... trust me hun, a good majority of the time "maybe" is a guy's way of saying "not really" in a nice way.
2007-01-20 23:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by punkchickatheart54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him!!
Take it from me and probably everyone else, if you don't ask, it will eat you up.
And he probably didn't want to appear too eager before, and he might want you to chase him a bit. But when you do ask him, don't ask, "wanna do something sometime?" Ask him to a specific event. That way he can't give you a "maybe" answer.
2007-01-20 23:20:30 · answer #3 · answered by oneguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking him to just hang out first to get a vibe then if it goes well or if theres flirting then ask him out on a date.
2007-01-20 23:19:08 · answer #4 · answered by brat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look u like him take a Chance girl.
2007-01-20 23:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Heather M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah, ask him out. don't be coy or play word games, walk up to him & say "how about we go out on a date?"
2007-01-20 23:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-01-20 23:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋