what do u do or talk about to your boyfriend when he is extrelly shy?

Question

we kiss but we don't talk about anything cause we both are shy but what do i do ??

Answer 1

Most people's favorite topic is themselves. Ask him about his life, his work, his hobbies, his family. Talk about personality types, since you are both obviously introverts. Pick a book that you can read together and discuss.

Answer 2

my husband is very shy and we had that same problem starting out .... i just really had to ask questions to find out what he was interested in to get him talking about something ... which music was his thing and just talking about his interest helped him get more comfortable talking in general.
good luck!