I guess the main reason im afraid im pregnant is that i will let so many people down. im pretty much saying i do most of the things i do to make my mother happy and proud... most of the times its not even good enough for her.. but thats beyond the point. I stress so much because i doing one thing to please her, another to please my dad and others to please my family.. my friends and even my boyfriend. I just wish i could run away for a couple days and forget about everyone. i have been stressing soo much for the past couple weeks... i mean is it bad to stress...? and its not even for MY OWN reasons? I stress for OTHER people's reason. I want everyone to be happy with you I am... and most of the time its not even what I want. most people say im too young and should just do what i have to do... but what if its not what i want to do? Is It Wrong To Stress for trying to please everyone?
2007-01-20 15:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by Jessie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well first of all STRESS is not a good word so obviously stressing is bad for you. You have to learn in life that you can't and will never be able to please everyone so the only person that you should worry about pleasing is yourself...By trying to please all these people that you are, you are wearing yourself down and it's taking a toll on you. Forget about them and focus on yourself. They might be mad in the beginning but they will respect you for it later.
2007-01-20 15:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You should only have to please yourself. If you like you and do the best you can in this world then that is all you can do. If you are stressed because you are pregnant and the timing is not right, then you have reason to be stressed but it is not good for you or the baby. Don't know your age...it would help to give you further advice. If you could get away for a couple of days to reflect on exactly what it is YOU want that would be very helpful for you both. Try hard to take it easy.
2007-01-20 15:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong especially now that you have a life depending you. You need to take care of you and the baby and stress is really bad for a pregnant. The baby can feel the effects and it can be dangerous for the baby. You need to live your own life and not please everyone b/c you can't. It is impossible. Just take care of the baby and yourself. Everything else will fall into place.
2007-01-20 15:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're describing indications of rigidity. the rigidity from the recent interest might desire to be doing all this. Do issues for her which will shop her time, like bringing supper. provide her lower back rubs devoid of awaiting extra. She ought to in all danger get extra sleep, so do no longer stay at her place too previous due. If she would not regulate after yet another month, she might ought to work out a doctor approximately her rigidity point.
2016-10-07 11:47:04 · answer #4 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont stress get away for a few days your baby will suffer from your stress. Stop pleasing those that dont appreciate u.
2007-01-20 16:02:51 · answer #5 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself happy.
2007-01-20 15:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by Patience G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋