So, I just met this guy recently and he is wanting to come over... I told him I don't feel well and yucky (come on girls - that time) and he keeps insisting... How do I tell him no nicely without ripping his face off because he's getting on my last cramping nerve?
2007-01-20 15:13:42 · 25 answers · asked by sharons 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This would be our first time meeting face to face...
2007-01-20 15:29:35 · update #1
Its always fun to be honset!!! I love the face they make the first time that comes up.Its like they are trying to be cool but they are trying to think of a way to get the h*ll away from you without p*ssing you off hahahaha take pics of his face lol
2007-01-20 15:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by brat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just met this guy recently, and he can't take a simple no as an answer, I'd watch out for this guy. He might feel like you're blowing him off or something but just say "Hey, look..I'm really not feeling all that great tonight, we'll plan something for a later time, is that cool?"
2007-01-20 23:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I think that if you've told him that you don't feel well, and you'll do it another time, that should be good enough. It sounds like he doesn't have much respect for your feelings.
Tell him (one more time) that you're just not feeling well and although you'd like to see him, this is just not a good time and you need to rest. If he keeps pushing it, I think I'd rethink the whole thing.
2007-01-20 23:19:23 · answer #3 · answered by Elaine 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want to be alone and that when you feel better you will see him but right now you won't be very good company. If that don't work, rip his face off :)
2007-01-20 23:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If possible, just tell him why (the real reason). I'd understand... But, I really don't know why he'd insist like that. He sounds like a moron. Perhaps be observant, and make sure you actually WANT him around.
2007-01-20 23:18:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him as sweetly as you can. Don't try to make up an excuse that isn't true, tell him the truth, even if it could hurt his feelings, but that's why you want to sound as nice and truthful as you cab. If you lie, he might eventually find out.
good luck
2007-01-20 23:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by carmenaschenck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really think that cramps or no cramps you should give this guy a chance that might be something that he will never forget. remember if you say no then it is no. but if you pass up a chance of a life time you may never get another chance to see what can develope for a future.
2007-01-20 23:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by eddie t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's not getting the mssg.......come right out and tell him* you just told thousands of ppl who read this question* LOL...it's that time and you honestly don't want him coming over tnight but you'd love for him and you to hook up soon*
GoodLUck*
2007-01-20 23:18:21 · answer #8 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the true about how you fill because guys can under stand things to . Its 2007,not 1807
2007-01-20 23:19:49 · answer #9 · answered by sehoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u really like him as a friend, but ur just not comfortable enough to let him come over
2007-01-20 23:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by lalalua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋