There are times when I need space as well or whatever to do my own thing, but I feel he needs his alot more than I do. There was that point early in the relationship (we've been together for almost a year and a half) where he would want to spend every moment with me. But I know that "puppy dog" stage is over. Not that he doesnt want to spend no time with me. Just if we spend a whole day together...and the next day....then that day he more distant (because he needs the break).
And I don't need a break most of the time and it upsets me kinda that he does. I mean I respect it and all but I dunno.
Is that a normal guy thing? I guess girls are more needy....
2007-01-20 15:12:19 · 5 answers · asked by Oh Mandy! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well I'm married and in the first year or 2, me and my husband were mad about each other we still are but now its a lil different years later... before we used to spend every sec we could together and if we were apart we would text or call each other all the time cryng how much we miss each other lol and now hmm well now we're not dieing so much about been together every sec of the day we do enjoy some time apart and we also enjoy some time together... i don't mind how it is now I like it to have my space to go out with a friend for a drink then later on i come home and when he gets home we're back together and we enjoy time together... i think breaks are good at list for my self... you should talk to your partner and tell him how you feel but you also have to listen to him and together find a solution about how you spend time together etc.
2007-01-20 15:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just a guy thing...It's a people thing. I'm like that with my boyfriend. We've only been together 5 months and he wants to spend all his time with me whereas I like my space. I can go days without seeing him, but he freaks out if he hasn't seen me in more than a day. So it's not about girls being more needy...It's about you being more needy than your boyfriend is.
I like my time alone so I don't feel smothered. I like to have my space to do me and just chill out and take a breather. Don't be upset by it...it's nothing personal.
2007-01-20 15:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 21:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your smothering each other that is not healthy. Spend a few hours but you spend time with your freinds & let him be with his boys. enjoy being young. When you spend too much time you get burned out & can ruin a good thing don't be over bearing. If he loves & respects you for you then you don't have to worry when he is not with you. give each other space . I have a freind who everytime her man is not with her she trys to track him down, & it takes a toll on her realtionship, I had to tell her to ease up bcuz she was pushiong him away & not giving hm any space & it drives him crazy. Smothering can ruin a realtionship it makes the other person feel that your insecure & don't trust them
2007-01-20 15:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your being needy,sorry but everyone needs space,man or woman.
When he needs time to himself that is your time to get in touch with friends or family or just have quiet time alone.
2007-01-20 15:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Rainy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋