ok well it goes like this:
me and me x boyfriend just broke up. but i know he still likes me and i still like him. now he is dating my best friend and my friend doesnt care. so now i cant get him off my mind and i know for a fact he still likes me. i tryed to talk to my friend about this but she wont even consiter about braking up. so now i see him all the time and i sm so mad. when ever i see him i get a weird and my stomack gets butterflis. what should i do? cuz he is everywhere. when i sleep i dream bout him. when i close my eyes i see him. when i turn the corner i see him. he is everywhere. and i know he still likes me. so what shouls i do? should i tell him i still like him or should i tell him i dont like him? plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 15:10:52 · 20 answers · asked by sexyhotgirl331 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea you should just tell him you dont like him for now and then when he breaks up with your friend you could talk to him and try to get with him. Thats kinda your fault because when you broke up with him i know for sure as he didnt get with your friend the next day it kinda takes time so it was your fault because you should have told him the next day that you still had feelings for him and you could have gotten with him
2007-01-20 15:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going through the after effects of a break up. If he really does still like you, then why did he break up with you? Could the idea of him still liking you be just an intense desire for you, so intense that you are manifesting it to be real when it isn't? Don't tell him whether you like him or not, just leave him be. I think your best friend understands this. There is a saying that is very true. If you love him, let him go. If he comes back, it's meant to be. Calm your desire to be with him and just live your life. If you search for happiness, it will find you.
2007-01-20 15:17:28 · answer #2 · answered by flameofthewitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may seem like he's the only great guy in the world, but trust me there are plenty of fish in the see. Move on, leave your friend and your ex to each other. Besides it will not last, really it wont. So work on finding the new guy to get all worked up over.
2007-01-20 15:16:13 · answer #3 · answered by MirandaPen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this because i am a guy but most men dream about what you are talking about. Situation is two girls and one guy.
A guy gets a big head (no pun intended!) if he has two girls fighting over him.
all i can say is i wish i was that guy. it happened a long time ago and i did go back with my first girlfriend and we got engaged and we almost got married. I sometimes wished i would have married her as she was a good women but i was in the air force and much to immature for marriage. but when it comes to marriage no man is mature enough for marriage
2007-01-20 15:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already knows that you still like him. That look you give each other says it all!! Try to distance yourself so you don't ruin a friendship. She is not as alright with it as you think. Give it about a month and they will be broke up. Then maybe you can pursue him.
2007-01-20 15:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. You let him go. He lilkes your friend, and if you are really a friend you will respect her. You are selfish and only think about yourself. I heard that people that are selfish end up alone. You are jealous of your friend and are jealous that she and your ex are happy, You are not that great and he is not in love with you if he has already moved on.
2007-01-20 15:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by Juniata P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get it of your mind and tell him you still like him. Why did you break up with him in the first place. Honestly, I wouldn't want him back if he was dating my best friend. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww
2007-01-20 15:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow thats a tough one, cus i dont know i mean if he really did still like you he wouldnt be with your "best friend". unless he's trying to make you jealous, which then should tell you that he's not all that great, cus its obvious that he knows that him going out with your best friend would hurt you and he still did it. which also leads me to think that he is doing it on purpose. he is trying to hurt you cus maybe his male ego was hurt with your break up. i say do your best to move on, he's really not worth it. as for your best friend, she really isnt your best friend anymore. while its true that friendships shouldnt be thrown away, a good friend wouldnt have dated your ex boyfriend while knowing you still liked him.
2007-01-20 15:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by ursNonlyUrs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give both of them your blessings and get on with your life. She is no longer your best friend and he is no longer your boyfriend. They are trying to get a response from you and to antagonize you. Just as with any bully or terrorist, if you ignore them they cannot harm you.
Girl Good LUCK.
2007-01-20 15:16:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes u and want u to b back.Thats y he is dating ur best friend itself as he knew that u would feel jealous and understand how caring he was when u were with him.Its just that he dont want to come and tell u directly that he loves u.So u go and tell him that u love him and dont want to lose him .We cant c wat we have in our hands until we lose it.Dont worry it happens in life.Go ahead and speak to him openly.There is nothing to lose.He is not seriously in love with ur best friend,love is something which we feel in our heart,if he is true he will come back to u after hearing u.He is waiting to hear from u that u love him.No need to talk abt this matter to ur bestfriend.You go and tell him and say sorry .
2007-01-20 15:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by ameena 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋