I can't help it, it's just the vibe I'm getting from just about everywhere. I've been trying to prepare myself for several short term sex based relationships because I feel that I will have to do that before I meet a woman who will want a long term relationship. And just what is wrong with that anyway?
2007-01-20 15:00:58 · 22 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All women are different and thus want different things. There is nothing wrong with a short term sexually based relationship if that is what you BOTH define it as from the beginning. Most relationships are entered however without any set time frame of how long it will last. Short relationships turn into long ones.
2007-01-20 15:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tasha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Not all women want one-night stands and/or casual sex. Some do, and some don't. If you're meeting easily available women: check out the surroundings! A bar/disco environment lends itself to casual encounters; whereas, a church/synagogue/mosque/temple or other house of worship might (but not always!) lend itself to meeting a woman who isn't in to the causal sex thing. Not sure how old or young you are, but take your time. Bookstores and libraries are great places to meet women. I think the other variable influencing your observation is American mass media's pretty crappy depiction of women as easy prey. Before you become sexually intimate, date a woman and get to know here. Check out the "Sex Without Strings" article by the National Marriage Program (URL below and food for thought). Hope this helps.
2007-01-20 15:09:40 · answer #2 · answered by compaq presario 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big NO No. Women like to feel like they are important & if they feel like a booty call it will never work. Love & repect is a biggy, short term fligs are dangerous grounds & condoms are not 100% & some people have gotten diseases even with a condom. No short term is not the way. If its not real you will never know if you don't buckle down & try to be real & quit playin games. Real womwn don't go for that & you will end up with women calling u a dog & women do talk , there fore miss right may hear about u thru word of mouth & be scared to deal with you .
2007-01-20 15:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The inflated prestige of fertile youthful girls ---I agree. Fertility isn't something to be pleased with. It in basic terms ends up in (hmmm.... what DOES fertility carry approximately ? Hmmm.... oh yeah! little ones! Jaded men look at hundreds of just about same bare women on the internet at the instant without being became on. ---Yeah, JADED men. yet no longer each and every male is jaded. greater and greater they choose drugs to respond ---possibly the JADED men do. or maybe in basic terms previous fat men do. the two way, a drop in male virility is a robust factor, given the inhabitants. Socrates suggested that when he now no longer had a intercourse force in previous age, he replaced into "released from the jaws of a wild beast." Why might any guy take a drug with the intention to be captive as quickly as back? ---stable for him. some human beings like intercourse. Sorry even though it relatively is actual. Or a minimum of, i've got seen lots of info that shows it. i like intercourse. yet whats up, why have faith me ? in case you do in contrast to intercourse, then by using all potential, slander all and sundry who does like intercourse. a minimum of, it will make intercourse a wee bit spicier, understanding that individuals accessible nevertheless think of that's a sin! And it ought to, once you're useful in discouraging intercourse, decrease the inhabitants (or provide up increasing it a minimum of). besides, superb of large fortune depopulating humanity. I wish you the wonderful.
2016-10-31 21:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm. what's wrong with premarital sex. Everything. for about let's start with the fact the the BIBLE says it's wrong. the Bible also says it is a plesure for married couples, not ignorant young people. i'm only 15 but i still know it's wrong and do not believe in premarital sex and neither should you. And if you do have several short term realationships you are a target for HIV, not? think about it, really, do the right thing. Remember the right thing may not always seem like the fun thing, but you wont regret it when you get older and fin your true love.
2007-01-20 15:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by newsies62 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you think about what you want first of all. If you want a relationship, find a girl who wants one too. If you want something casual and sexual only, find a girl who wants that! Why are you wasting time trying to be what the girls want... nothing that begins that way would ever work out.
2007-01-20 15:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by gmug9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude....that is the worst possible thing to be looking for...
young women don't always just want sex...they want FUN...you need to go have FUN not SEX...SEX based relationships never develop into anything....unless you are extremely lucky
2007-01-20 15:04:54 · answer #7 · answered by SSWildcat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually NO,not all young women want short term,while some girls do.most girls would like long term and not just with sex.And even if ALL girls did want was sex and your not down with that then hold out till you find a girl that wants more then that.Tell them they can get toys for that.
2007-01-20 15:04:59 · answer #8 · answered by brat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with it, just be sure to use protection every time. most young girls have no idea what they want, and bad parenting has led the entire frikin us population of teens to do things like drink underage, have sex before love, and do drugs, this generation is shot... i feel sorry for the next
2007-01-20 15:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not all of us are looking for one night stands. you don't have to sleep w/ a girl to keep her around. some lady is waiting on you & will be thrilled when you have waited on her.
it's good to see a guy who doesn't like the sex based relationship idea. kudos to you.
2007-01-20 15:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋