Long story short, met him online. Met him in person the other day, and wow, for the first time ever since my breakup with my ex, I felt really good about someone. Met him for coffee, I mentioned I had to go buy furniture, and he offered to help me cause the boxes were heavy. I felt bad, the first time I met him, and I took him shopping, lol, and made him carry my things, but he offered.
I dont know him too well, but, I have the feeling, he may be my type, but I may not be his. He is very forward, ie. asked if i was a virgin, told me I had a nice bum, lol, I mean, the way he says it, makes me think hes a player.
I dont know what he is looking for. I really like him, and I feel like if I ask him what he thinks of me or where we're going, Im going to scare him away.
What do I do?
2007-01-20 14:28:37 · 7 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a little too forward. His asking you if you were a virgin and commenting on your butt was in bad taste.
Since you really like him, I would give him another chance and try to figure him out. He might be a player but then again he might not be. It may be, that he is just rude sometimes.
I would look for more signs of his just being a player. Watch him carefully.
Good Luck. Trust your instincts. They never lie.
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2016-12-02 19:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by nastasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well kinda wierd if u met him online but if you like have a great feelin about him i think you should ask him how he feels bout u cuz how are u suppose to go forward if one of u dosnt make the 1st move [which now is askin how you guys feel bout each other]
but uhm bout the bum think he might be a pervert and only in it to get in ur pants.
so overall yu should ask him =]
2007-01-20 14:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by yeekn0e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your gut in all aspects of dating. Get to know him a little better... Ie: take it slow.
Unless your online relationship had sexual overtones... being that forward on a first date is kind of creepy. If you scare him away by being yoruself... You really don't want him
2007-01-20 14:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a few more dates before you judge him. take it slow if your worried and find out more things about him. if he's fine with asking you personal questions, then you should have every right to ask him back.
2007-01-20 14:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would think you should wait for a couple more days and have some more dates with him.
2007-01-20 14:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by life!?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just go with the flow.
2007-01-20 14:31:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋