Is it just the pervs?? well .... ok well i had this bf and like a day after our first frickin date he asked if he could make out with me...why do us girls take it slow, and they take it faster?
2007-01-20 14:22:59 · 24 answers · asked by carmenaschenck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because guys only want one thing anyway...the sooner they get there the sooner they can go on to the next... now keep in mind there are actually nice guys out there.... but most are not.
2007-01-20 14:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls take it slow. Sometimes those are the ones guys have experience with so that's what they expect. Guys think too much with the head between their legs and not enough with the one on their shoulders
2007-01-20 22:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reality Check**Today the rules of dating & romance have changed drastically. Men have lost respect in women because more women have lost respect in themselves.(Wife-swapping, swinging & single women w/Low self-esteem use sex as a bribe for love). Plus, men/guys "go for what they know"(whatever worked before) & popular TV shows ie.;"Desperate Housewives" & "Elimidate".... are not much help either!. So, who's to blame?. Hint: Before you accept another date Ask If he likes/watches either show THEN decide.
2007-01-20 23:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by ib4u2d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the male hormones, males are more interested in sexual intercourse than women are. He can't make you do anything you don't want to do. He should wait until you are ready.
I admit to trying to take things fast, but I don't at any way force it upon my girl friend because I know she will do it when she is ready, and I know if there is anything she is uncomfortable with she would tell me and I would stop.
Don't do anything you don't want to do.
2007-01-20 22:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are looking for a provider, somebody nice, and all of that. But guys just want to get off.
2007-01-20 22:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
will you see guys like taking it fast cause they want to get in your pants and see if your good or not. and girls like taking it slow so we can see if hes the right guy or not.if hes not the right guy and you did it with him at just sucks.if hes is then i think hes the right guy. but if you take it slow thats o.k but just make sure you find the right guy.
2007-01-20 22:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by lababyt209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl has a lot more to lose than the guy does. Keep him at a distance until you are totally ready, if you lose him, you would not want him.
Good luck
2007-01-20 22:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes pervs. insecurity with themselves.
2007-01-20 22:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by JHAMAINE E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they think about sex. not all guys are like that but most are...theres about me and one other guy out of all my guy friends who dont think like this, out of 15-20, so 10% of guys lol
2007-01-20 22:35:03 · answer #9 · answered by dwickleworth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in school. I try to be nice, talkative, and take it slowly. She rudely, told me to shut up, and hurry up.
2007-01-20 22:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋