2007-01-20 14:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by chntlarmstrong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you catch them in the act
2007-01-20 14:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Captin Obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically watch for changes of behavior of any kind but particularly:
new clothes, better clothes, neater clothes
more care in personal appearance
"unexcused absences"
giving details when none are asked for
increased cell, computer activity
change in passwords, email accounts
unexplained credit charges
hiding financial details and charges
being caught in lies, big or Small of any kind
defensiveness
irritability
change in sexual attention
changes in sexual habits or techniques
increased criticism of you
expressing dissatisfaction with his life in general
picking fights/arguments
being late for dates/appointments
secretive behavior
long winded excuses for any of the above
I'll tell ya one thing for sure, the partner always knows even before they know what they know. It's a 'feeling' you might get that things just aren't "right". Trust your gut and look for proof. Unless you are into denial and don't really want to know you're almost sure to find it.
Good luck and I'm sorry.
2007-01-20 14:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A change in their behavior, or change in their priorities, or their affection towards you. Someone who is cheating may act differently than before like he doesn't want to have sexual relations with you anymore, or he acts as he is not interested in you anymore. He doesn't leave time for the both of you, or he always has "other" things to do.
2007-01-20 14:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he says hes at a friends house on the phone..make him say your name cuz if hes with another women he wont. Less sex or qt.. If he says hes working late al the time and it makes u nervous..be a good girlfriend and stop by his job to bring him a snack..see if hes actually there. Most of the time when your gut instinct tell you he is..he is!
2007-01-20 14:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is "forgetting" his phone or just ot answering it. If he is always out and about with friends. If you arent spending any time together or when you do he doesnt seem interested. I have been cheated on by my ex years ago and usually you can just feel when things arent right. Follow your instincts and good luck!
2007-01-20 14:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some signs that you know your partner is cheating on you is the person is not really attached to you like normally, the person dont call like they use to, and if they do call the conversation is brief. and if there is a change in your sex life
2007-01-20 14:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by princessg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they accuse YOU of cheating for no reason. Don't really know why this is true but trust me everyone who has cheated on someone is guilty of playing this game.
2007-01-20 14:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by hellodarling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strange phone calls
behavior towards you changes
not affectionate
always has excuses
never around
has new "friends"
works late
showers more frequently
routine is different
talks to you different(no I love you sweeties) anymore
no more late night phone calls just to hear your voice or calling just to say hi I love you
2007-01-20 14:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You usually feel it instinctively. However, if he's showering more often, or you feel like he's pulling away from you then those may also be signs.
2007-01-20 14:13:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't unless you've witnessed it.
Try www.mary.com and they have a quiz on there you can take to see what the percentage is of your lover cheating on you.
2007-01-20 14:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does their wang smell like tang, does he stay out all hours of the night, is he always hanging out with his buddies, or at his mom's house? is his phone always turned off, always in a meeting at work? if so then yeah he is knocking somebody else's porch back into line if you catch my drift
2007-01-20 14:13:09 · answer #11 · answered by smitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋