2007-01-20 13:47:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sad to hear about the break-up, but wow, now you can discover who you are!! :) Such a beautiful thing and even though it might take you a while, being alone is not all that bad. Once you become comfortable with who you are, not only will you be happier, you will have a lot to offer that lucky new person!! :)
2007-01-20 14:16:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are lonely, do not go to a bar or some other pick up place. Consider going to a gym and do light workouts to start. Then go home and stay out of the fridge. Cool it with the TV. Books are good as long as they do not have a lot of romance.
Consider an interest concomitant with you education.
If you are looking for some companionship, be careful. But try eHarmony; they are expensive but their method of finding partners, although more secret than UFO's, are really startlingly good. It does work.
But you have to try to see what direction your life is going. If you cannot do this yourself, go to a counselor.
I have been there, thought that I was lost, but have faith in yourself and you will be fine.
2007-01-20 13:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by kellenraid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get you some girlfriends. Get dolled up and have a night on the town, go to the movies, go out to dinner and set aside time for yourself. Once you get over the alone part of being unattached, you'll start doing things by yourself, getting your nails done, renting movies you want to watch and having a good time by yourself.
The bad part is being alone, the good part is healing and falling in love with yourself. Always look to your friends. If you don't have any good friends, try a volunteer activity, that way you will be around good people and something that means something to you.
2007-01-20 13:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by bridetobebrandie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... this guy could no longer have enjoyed you very plenty if he's familiar with you do no longer lie and he believed the rumor besides... looks such as you're in teenage disaster mode... sure it hurts... you're in all danger misplaced in the international of what the H*ll purely befell... yet hurting your self isn't the respond... nor is chasing after him... he could be a misplaced reason now... make an effort out to mourn your loss... have somewhat funeral for this misplaced courting and enable it bypass... then go searching you with new eyes and notice the international for the way appealing it incredibly is... and in line with danger you will see somebody else you not at all observed until eventually now... the appealing, good and sensible youthful woman you truly are... good success...
2016-12-14 07:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish they had something to do, get on answers, sleep, read, sleep, study for school, sit on the computer and wait for the guy that they really like and want to go out with but no he has to avoid me, get really mad ask people why ur family makes u want to kill ur self, make fake plans to get revenge on the people u hate the most, think up excuses why you dont have a life, answer questions like this all the time, give advise that wont be taken, and yell at the dog for being an idiot.
there is much more i could tell you but i have to stop now or it will go on and on and on and on and on.
good luck to you
lifelessgirl23
2007-01-20 13:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime ago, during a very unhappy time, I met a wonderful girl who showed me how wonderful it is to bring joy to others. And taking her lessons in hand, I found that seeing others smile and be joyful eventually filled me with the same. Often it's just those little things...helping a lady with bad legs to carry her groceries; reading a story to the kids in the shelter.So, maybe you can go out and do that...make folks happy! Adios!
2007-01-20 14:02:55 · answer #6 · answered by Jason Adams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of your house and enjoy life :) don't be afraid to step out of the box. do the things you weren't able to do because you were in a relationship. check out clubs, hang out with friends, take on a new hobby. Overall, smile and be happy. Move on with your life. You never get out of a relationship without gaining something.
2007-01-20 13:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by monkeyspiiit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are there dear. Life sux without a goodpartner to play with. Don't eat yourself to death and try to find something to do other than sit here all day. Good Luck, I should follow my own advice.
2007-01-20 13:51:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through the same thing and belive me it will get better but you just can't sit around ... sulking about such things and you need to get out or do what i do which is read a book and or knitt. its very relaxing actually but you need to just sit down and have some you time. you don't need him anyway.
2007-01-20 13:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Perfection 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
collect food and clothing for the homeless and disadvantaged. picking up trash on the street in your community, volunteering at the local food bank
2007-01-20 13:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by lat0ria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋