I am 5'10" natural long blond straight hair, green to gray blue eyes..about 150 lbs, not the best skin but pretty clear..
Some guys that ive hung out with once say that im a certified hottie... whatever..
But then all the guys at my SCHOOl never really notice me, and i dont think any of them like me at all.
Then my girl friends say that i am okay, but guys really hate my braces, and that im sort of chubby, and that i can do something with my hair or try to lose my stomach (its not bad AT all, i had surgery and now its permanently angled oddly even though its very toned)
Why are girls such biTches?? why do they say this stuff? How can i become more appealing or find out if any of the guys at my school like me? I am smart, but not complete outcast. its really affects my self-esteem..are my guy friends (the few that i have) just being nice
2007-01-20 13:11:52 · 8 answers · asked by kat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i got bored one day with having blond straight hair, so i changed my avatar instead :)
2007-01-20 13:22:42 · update #1
You definitely are not over weight at 5'10 and a 150 pounds! Don't let anyone tell you differently. Since I don't know you, it's hard to say why you aren't dating. Could it be that you're a little shy and maybe subconciously putting out vibes that make the boys feel like you aren't approachable? If you have a guy in particular that you like, let him know by making a point to talk to him or try flirting a little. Sometimes guys just need a little encouragement. They need to know that there is at least a chance that you would consider going out with them should they ask. Guys won't ask if they think they will definitely be rejected! Good luck with this!
2007-01-20 13:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what you look like, but you certainly don't seem to be FEELING very well.
Until you work through some of these self esteem issues, it is probably best that you don't date.
As far as your friends, if you don't trust what the boys; and are hurt by the girl say, you may want to consider dropping some of those "friends".
2007-01-20 13:18:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry so much about what they think dear. People our age just have no idea how to find what they're looking for...in fact, most don't even know WHAT they're looking for in a relationship. It takes a while for all of us to shake those out. Don't sweat it:)
2007-01-20 13:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by Elminster 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
those girls are such bitches!!! what happened to the inner beauty??? noone is going to tell someone that they're not attractive unless they're an asshole. if you want just dress nicer and let your personality shine!!! you don't need people to make you feel better about yourself. you should already feel that way!!! if you don't find yourself attractive, then who will???
2007-01-20 13:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So this avatar of yours.....what's up with that?
And quit trippin on these shallow people and do you....Please!
2007-01-20 13:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Mirch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember that God made you and he never makes mistakes.. you are fine the way you are,, if someone says otherwise,, they are stupid
2007-01-20 13:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by road runner 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What was the question?
2007-01-20 13:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there probably jealous
2007-01-20 13:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋