I like this boy in my grade and there is a dance coming up. I want to ask my crush out but i dont know how to. I am really nervous to ask him out wat should i do?
2007-01-20 12:55:04 · 18 answers · asked by Abby B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
guys LOVE it when a girl makes that first move! so, you're off to a good start. the best thing to do is just go for it. he might say "yes" or he might say "no". and if he says "no", then who cares? his loss.
just catch him when he's by himself at his locker and say "hey, jeff ( or scott, or steve, or jim ) if you aren't going to the dance with anyone yet, let's go together. ok? "
WHATEVER YOU DO, do NOT ask him "are you going to the dance with anyone?" see, that already gives him a way to back out.
and wear pink lipstick. guys LOVE that!
2007-01-20 13:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by stevemincer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u girls going with date's?if not go with them & than talk 2 him @ the dance,& show him how fun and smart u r.that will take the stress away.but if u want 2 go with just him,than i would wear a cute outfit do ur make-up(this is 4 u)b/c when u feel great u'll not b so nervous also he'll c what he'll miss out on.if he dosen't go with u.& just ask him(pull him aside)so if he say's no u can respond that's "cool i already had plans 2 go with my girls i just wanted 2 c if u were going?"& i was just extending the invite.that way u won't b disappointed & u won't look like foolish.
2007-01-20 21:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by cleo 888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress out everyone gets nervous, just casually ask him if he is going to the dance first of all and get your friends to find out if he likes you and if he would like to go out with you sometime.
2007-01-20 20:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Arianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to find out if he is interested. It's not going to hurt to at least try asking. Don't be nervous, what's the worst that can happen? It's easier to find out the hard way then to never know.
2007-01-20 20:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by nukem_thebomb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him, (introduce yourself if you need to) and ask him straight out. Better to just do it, quick and painless. If he says no, you say, see you around. Keep it classy, and move on. If he says yes, look like a knockout at the dance and make him glad he did!
2007-01-20 20:59:29 · answer #5 · answered by lucky g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come right out and say what s on your mind. That's usually the best way to do it, otherwise you dont feel like you get the point accross, i speak from experence. Anyway, say whats on your mind, follow your heart, and best of luck.
2007-01-20 21:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by vw chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and ask him if he has a date to the dance that is what i did and we danced the night away
2007-01-20 20:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by u_rock_my_socs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Take a few deep breaths, walk up and ask if he'd like to go out.
2007-01-20 20:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by burkscw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key is to keep it casual and normal...talk with him get to know him...dont even ask about the dance. ask what hes doing that weekend, and see if he would like to join you.
2007-01-20 21:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by cubno1fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bless you ms. abby...........you have the heart of a lion....see if he has a date already, and if he does not ask him if he would consider you, if he says yes, then you may have a date, if he says i don't know, ask him why, your a girl, he's a guy, you don't bite and you are just as nervous as he is...........i wish you all the luck there little one
2007-01-20 21:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋