Dilemma ...?

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I would like to ask your opinion. What should I do ? As i am in love with one of my best friends. But there is a problem. She is allready dating someone for almost a year. If i will try and talk to her, maby she will get the wrong idea, and change her feelings twords me. We get along fine. I know all the books say that it is fatal that she is one of my best friend. I try and council my self by saying that I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with her. I am loosing my mind and trying to find an oportunity for me to speak with her. Any sugestions ?

2007-01-20 12:49:24 · 5 answers · asked by Codrin . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating

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Keep in mind she has a b/f. Well actually do you know how she feels about you? If she likes you then go for it. If she doesnt than sorry to say this but move on. She's in love with him and not with you!!! Find yourself someone else and try to spend less time with her. Maybe spending less time with her will help calm down your feelings that you have towards her.

2007-01-20 12:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by cute_chica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Seein she has a bf i would try to find someone else, u dont wanna ruin her relationship with her bf and seein she is stil with him i would say he is the one she likes...move on, maybe distance yourself for a bit to get over her

2007-01-20 12:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by wac0032 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

2007-01-20 12:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

well it sounds like she is really into the guy she is in a relationship with now maybe you should try to move on.

2007-01-20 12:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by ~April~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

was in your shoes in 1979, sorry to say this but she needs to have you as a friend more than the boyfriend.
trust me somethings are'nt meant to be.as hard as it seems.you'll be sorry if you persue this.

2007-01-20 12:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋