2007-01-20 12:36:49 · 31 answers · asked by pussycat doll* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u get some self respect and tell him to get lost.
2007-01-20 12:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheating, he'll keep cheating regardless of how you feel about him... people are scum like that sometimes.
So, anyways, talk to him, tell him he's being a jerk and that you deserve MUCH better, then leave him. It's hard, but it's what's best for you in the long run.
Then go out and get the book "It's Called A BreakUp Because It's Broken".... it's a great book and really helps you see the break up from all angles. A Must Read!!
2007-01-20 20:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by RONALD J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go! Time heals all wombs. Don't subject yourself to this treatment. If he can't respect you and you don't respect yourself then what do you have left? Once you realize that you are so much better than what he has to offer you and you will feel so much better after this transition that you are going through. Don't let this boy take away the one thing you have which is your self esteem and your dignity. Love yourself and get that confidence I promise you won't go wrong. Don't believe when a man tells you that he won't do it again and that he loves you and you take him back he sees your weakness for him. Don't let him see that weakness. Boys feed on that weakness. The problem is that he is a boy not a man, but I really don't see the difference. Please don't be a statistic.
2007-01-20 20:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by doodie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
it depends on how long you want to be hurt.that being said if you really love him tell him how you feel and hope for the best. let him know that you know that he is cheating and that you want him to stop. get you answer and if he promises to not do it again the good. if he says no then walk away, go on with your life hold you head up high because you've done the right thing. and find a guy who will love you for who you are.
2007-01-20 20:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a powerful thing. but unfortunatelly, so is cheating. its hard knowing which way to turn.
an easy way to start relieving ur pain, is to make sure the other woman knows about it too.
then, if she agrees to let him go, hes left with neither u or her, and a lot of things on his mind to think over.
give it a little time before u guys mutually come bak together.
and if ur lucky, he may be comming bak to u as a new man. but in a good way.
2007-01-20 20:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if the boy is cheating on you get rid of him! You may love him, but he obviously doesn't appreciate or love you in the same way! Don't let yourself be in that position...it's not fun at all!
2007-01-20 20:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts, but you'll probably be more angry at yourself in the long run if you stay with him. A cheater is rarely cured of their unfaithfulness. If he cheats, he doesn't respect you, making him undeserving of your gracious love. Say good-bye & don't look back.
You CAN do it!
2007-01-20 20:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ellie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. I know you may love him and it will hurt like hell, but you will get over it in time. does he know that you know that he is cheating. if he does he will continue to do it, just because he can get away with it. there are plenty of men out there hunny you dont need him
2007-01-20 20:40:45 · answer #8 · answered by Candy H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating on you, loving him is a bad idea. I would give him an ultimatum and make it stick. Get loyal or get lost.
2007-01-20 20:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the Fruitcake.
2007-01-20 20:43:04 · answer #10 · answered by RED VIPER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't love you...So he sure as hell doesn't deserve your love! He's a dick...there are plenty of good guy out there for you. Leave him and get someone who will treat you right.
2007-01-20 20:41:27 · answer #11 · answered by Ally P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋