My dad yells at my brother so much and he wont stop never!
2007-01-20 12:33:42 · 12 answers · asked by Elysa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dads yell because they can't think of a better way to communicate!
2007-01-20 12:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by Corrine L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't understand until you are a parent how frustrating having kids can be. It still does not make it right and it is stressful to grow up in a house full of people yelling. Trust me I know I did. Maybe you can have a talk with you dad when he is calm and tell him that this is really effecting you and your brother and see if it is possible to communicate by talking before it gets to the point of yelling. good luck hang in there.
2007-01-20 20:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because your Dad's dad probably yelled at him as a child too and that is how your Dad thinks he should parent his own son. Perhaps it is a clash of personalities too. Sad, but a lot of Dad's do this. Yelling does not achieve anything.
2007-01-20 20:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If kids were mature they wouldn't get yelled at. But thats not the case...dads and moms both have a responsibility to keep a kid focussed on the positive things in life.... and if it takes yelling... so be it.
My question is...why does your brother need to be yelled at all the time?
2007-01-20 20:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because he is bad. No really yelling doesnt solve anything. Your dad obviously doesnt know how to relate to him in a positive manner. Maybe your brother just screws up alot too.
2007-01-20 20:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes parents yell because they think that's the only way kids will listen. It's wrong, but that's why they yell.
2007-01-20 20:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a power/dominance thing.. It doesn't work.. Have your father sit down and explain why he wants things done his way etc.. Yelling is just another form of abuse..
2007-01-20 20:38:01 · answer #7 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to yell or kids will walk all over them..they r the boss.
2007-01-20 20:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't believe that he "won't stop never". He can't be yelling while eating, sleeping, crapping, or working. That's weird...if he does.
2007-01-20 23:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your brother to act like more like you, apparently you never get yelled at...
2007-01-20 20:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋