There's this girl that I work with, she's very outgoing and has predominately guy friends. I know she flirts with me but since she has so many guy friends and is outgoing with all of them I don't know if the blatent flirting supercedes the prospect of her just being herself... (ie. she calls me "love" playfully in person and over the internet, she grabs my muscles and compliments them and everytime we leave work or say goodbye she hugs me)... now I don't see her doing that with other guys but again, I'm worried that I'm taking her comfort lvl with me incorrectly and attributing it to her liking me more than one, unfortunately I do work with her and dont want to make things awkward at work,basically I dont wanna look like a fool. my main issue is that she doesnt jump at hanging out with me or ask me to hang out all the time, ive asked a few times. and shes said yes, a few times,if she liked me as much as she shows when we talk youd think shed jump at seeing me and talking to me.inputplz
2007-01-20 12:30:54 · 4 answers · asked by dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Someone plz reassure me that I'm not crazy when I think that despite her lack of diehard motivation to hangout with me all the time I should probably think she likes me...She tells me how she admires my intelligence and motivation to succeed and calls me "handsome," plus, isn't any form of contact supposed to be the key subtilty to a girl showing shy affection???
2007-01-20 12:43:41 · update #1
Also, to provide further insight to the situation...Someone that I work with told me that a few months ago she confided in him, telling him that she liked me but thought I wasn't interested. She got a boyfriend, we continued being friends wiht me being oblivious to her previous feelings and somehow word that our co-worker told me she liked me she tried to half-brush it under the rug...(which im confidant was only a way to save embarassment) My best explanation for why she flirts with me but doesn't jump at hanging out with me is that she used to like me, got over it (went out with another guy and has since dumped him) and her idea of dating me has been paralyzed b/c she doesnt think im interested..... I feel that shes sunk so deep into a "friendship" pysche b/c of "rejection" by me that shes blinded by it, which would explain her open flirtation but not-thinking about dating me...thoughts, sry for the overwhelming amount of text-
2007-01-20 12:52:07 · update #2
if u work together dont get involved..its a very bad idea..find another girl who works elsewhere.
2007-01-20 12:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I will answer your question with how I am when I really like a guy. I would jump at the chance to be with him. Even if it was to dig a hole, ; ). And yes I would want to hang out with him all the time.
2007-01-20 20:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her, and let her know that your not trying to be rude but the signals shes sending you are confusing you...if shes outgoing she shouldnt have a problem answering
2007-01-20 20:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her
2007-01-20 20:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋