guy why do you lead girls on if you really dont like them? or are guys who like a girl when things start getting like their serious why do you back off and act like you dont like them what do they really think do you like her but scared
2007-01-20 12:29:06 · 11 answers · asked by kara w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We try! The guys who would treat women with loyalty and dignity can't seem to find a date, the women seem to prefer the bad boys who treat them badly. That is why there are so many unhappy women with bad relationships, and so many poor nerds that can't find a date. Maybe if you would give those loyal nice-boys a chance now and then, you wouldn't have so many bad experiences with relationships. There are nice guys out there, please consider us.
2007-01-20 12:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sure some guys lead a girl on, just because they dont want to settle down in a relationship. But, some might have something else on their mind. For a couple on months, when ever I liked a girl I always backed down, not because of commitment, but just because I didnt want to hurt them, by dragging them down with other problems that happen in my life, so i push my feeling aways and just stay friends. Which is never a bad thing. But, its not what I want.
I hope this helps.
2007-01-20 20:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Josh89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember what most males have on their mind; especially in the immediate post-adolescent years when hormones are raging. It is instinctual for the male to seduce the female in order to "mate". Once the conquest is successful, the male species begins to seek his next foray. The male does recognize that the female could benefit from his assistance in protecting/providing for a family he creates, but in the early stages of dating, this is not in the forefront of most young men. Please see the first sentence above for clarification on what is. Good luck, be careful, be smart and receive respect and trust before you give it.
2007-01-20 20:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by gon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont lead girls on but most men who do are mainly in it for another notch on the belt, another dart in the board whichever you want to put it.
Some guy's dont know when to stop until its passed to late then run for it because they cannot face up to facts.
HONESTY is my only policy when it comes to the opposite sex as in 'serious', anything less is not healthy for the mind, soul & body.
2007-01-20 20:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by Mosez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends some guys may lead a girl on cause its attention and they want that attention, till they find a person they actually wanna date. thats just one reason tho. they could like you but theyre just scared to get hurt. hard to tell cause i dont know the other individual
2007-01-20 20:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by herbieV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are afraid of commitment...some guys just like to flirt and don't think anything will come out of it and then when it does happen back off. You should just flirt back and don't push and even play hard to get...that almost always work...good luck
2007-01-20 20:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Curiously 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't lead girls on. Never have.
Obviously you are referring to an individual or a group of individuals. That behavior is common by both genders.
2007-01-20 20:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion, i am not scared of liking a girl, it is just that they might get too serious about everythig...e.x your girlfriend sees you talking to another girl and then she starts getting mad and all, and tells you that you can't to that girl---i hate that about girls!!
but, you have to see if a guy really likes you, or he is using you to have sex or to make someone jealous.
this what life or love is..
L: love relationships--getting married, starting a family--commitment.
I: infatuation--blind love--jealousy. e.x: puppy love.
F: friendship can lead you into love.
E: explotation--hurts--user/using someone, e.x. using someone for sex.
i hope that answers your question, good luck
2007-01-20 20:43:55 · answer #8 · answered by Countess Blavinskeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
noooooooooooo its not that at all! hell every women the minute they think a man really cares about them, they start walking all over him, it's like they think the man is just a piece of Property, I say s---- that
2007-01-20 20:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all about having fun while u r young..there is plenty of time to be serious when u r older.
2007-01-20 20:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋