im 14 and he is 17 and were both in high skool but he lives in WI and i live in FL is that bad?
2007-01-20 12:26:58 · 9 answers · asked by Lana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant bf as in boyfriend
2007-01-20 12:34:28 · update #1
aBSOLUTELY NOTHING IS WRONG WITH THAT SWEETHEART. jUST BE CAREFUL . DONT RUSH INTO SEX OR PLACE YOURSELF IN POSITION WHERE U CAN BE TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF.
2007-01-20 12:32:41 · answer #1 · answered by rowell1608 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all, girls do mature faster than most guys! But I would be a little bit careful that you do not get hurt. Do not let him rush you into sex or anything else that you are not comfortable doing!
Also something to think about...I wish I had when I was your age (My BF was also 4 years older than me)...
He will be going through a lot of different changes in the next two years...finishing up highschool, possibly going to college or entering the work force. This is probably going to be a lot of stuff that seems far off in the distance for you and you may not be able to relate to it all that well when he talks about it! Just don't let yourself get hurt!
2007-01-20 20:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might honestly ask yourself the question, "why doesn't he have a girlfriend closer to his own age?". Maybe he does and you just don't know it. For the moment, put aside emotional answers like,"he loves me, we were meant for each other, he's different from other boys, etc.".
If you are just "friends" and just chat on line ... no big deal. Have you ever met him personally ... face to face? What do your parents think about this relationship?
It could be that he is emotionally and socially underdeveloped for his age. Maybe he is trying to leverage his 3 year age difference to take advantage of you sexually.
Does he have any male friends his age? Have you ever spoken with them? Do they respect him? How do they treat him? These are telling answers about your boyfriend.
2007-01-20 20:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its only 3 years i like a guy 5 yrs older and im 13 and a 1/2
2007-01-20 20:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Nightchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats very... fishy. Its not necesarily "wrong" but it is definitely not wise at all! You could be opening a can of worms or asking for trouble. Its a very risky situation. Have you ever met this guy? If you met him on the Internet then I'd be careful.
2007-01-20 20:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal 4 a girl because girls muture earlier than guys so that is why girls date older guys!
An older guy can actually get into a longer relationship.
2007-01-20 20:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY DEAREST DARLING, DISTANCE DOES NOT MAKE THE HEART GROW FONDER!!!!! WHATS THE PROBLEM??? I HAVE A GIRL FRIEND WHO IS 23yrs old AND I AM 53yrs YOUNG!!!!!! HAPPY TRAILS AND LOTS OF LUCK!!!!!!
2007-01-20 20:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!Age dosen't matter(as long as you love eachother).Most people will answer "it is wrong"to this question.DON'T LISTEN TO THEM!!!
2007-01-20 20:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bff...does that stand for best friends forever. if so, then there's nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-20 20:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by truth hurts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋