She's been single for 3 years, had two very insignificant b/fs in high school that didn't even last a month. The problem? She's so shy. And when there is a guy she likes, she's either met him off the Internet or is so nervous with him in person that she finds it hard to say a word to him. I want to help her be happy. What kind of advice should I give her to help her date? Are there places I should take her .... she's 20, btw, so bars and things are probablty out of the question (she probably wouldn't go to those anyway). I have no idea what to say because I've never been shy and I have no trouble getting dates. She's extremely nice and everyone likes her and such but usually the guys she likes ends up just leading her on or do something stupid. She's now wanting to find Christian guys but I have no clue on where she should go (church is not an option because she works at a church on Sundays) Any ideas?
2007-01-20 12:00:57 · 5 answers · asked by Southern Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She will find someone in her own way.
Good Luck
2007-01-20 12:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first sweetie, you're friend is on the right track with trying to find a Christian guy. But if she's not a Christian, no real Christian guy will want her. That's just the faith. Uh, another thing, she needs to be confident. There is a reason why she's in a dry spell. The right guy will come along one day, and that guy will be outgoing to even out her shyness. He'll love everything about her, and she'll feel comfortable around him. He'll find her. She has nothing to worry about. That's when she's ready. Love happens when you least expect it. When you try and find it, it never works. A man that findeth him a wife has found a good thing. So she needs to be content with her life now, and do what she's supposed to do the right guy is out there for her. She just need to content with her life as it is now, and realize that a guy being her life may or may not make it better. If she's in a real rush....hook her up on a blind date....someone you know. A friend of a friend.......tell her to visit other churches. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-20 20:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"If u wanna be making moves on the street, Do not attach urself to anything ur not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if u feel the heat around the corner...."
Robert De Niro in HEAT
2007-01-20 20:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by sid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave her alone..if u pressurise her it will make her worse..she will find a guy when she is ready and things will just come naturally to her..stop worrying about her.
2007-01-20 20:04:29 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to be confident
2007-01-20 20:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋