ok so there is this girl that i really like. could u give me some tips upon how to ask her out. like should i use instant message or write a letter. when i do ask her out when should i do it. where should i take her on a date. we kinda hang out and talk. we have like one class together. so could any one give me some good advice??
2007-01-20 11:59:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
definately dont instant message her thats not cool. if you ask her out in person she will think you are way more confident than if you asked her out online. i know that if i was asked out over i.m. i wouldnt go out with whoever asked. but if he asked me in person i would most likely say ok. take her to a place that you enjoy, so she can get to know what you are like. dont go to the movies that would be way to awkward. ask her out in person maybe after class or write her a letter.
2007-01-20 12:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tori C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask her out in person, because even if she says no, she will realize that you are really sweet and brave. If you ask her out with a note or messenger, you would seem like a coward, but if you HAVE TO, then atleast give the note to her in person. On messenger, you could just boost yourself a teeny bit by saying "I need to tell you something, so the next time you see me, remind me." or something like that. This is what you need to say:
"I know this seems silly, but I really like you so I was wondering if maybe we could go out? If you don't want to, I hope we can still be friends."
For a date, taking her to the movies is a classic. Let her pick the movie.
You should ask her out when you guys are alone together. Tell her you need to talk to her.
2007-01-20 20:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I'll try to explain it. Never i mean NEVER ask a girl out online or by phone. A letter is only if you are shy(which is okay in my book), but you should ask a girl out in person. You can do it the casual way, pull her out of the crowd, tell her you like her, and give her a couple of days. If she likes you back, ask her out. Another way is it just straight up ask her out when you think you are both ready. If you wanna ask her out, make it sweet- get her a rose or do it in a memorable way.(: Ask for dates, if its a first date, just bring her out to eat at a reasonable place. dont make it too fancy, but not too cheap. Sushi is a good place to start out with XD After your done eating, you guys can go to a few fun stores and just chill. Walk her home(:
GLGLGL.
2007-01-20 20:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Wonder Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should first ask her when u guys are 2gether alone.the perfect place would be at an expensive resteraunt or the movies.u might want to get scary movies so that when the scary parts come she would be in ur arms.and the perfect time would be friday night at about 8pm.or on the weekends.well goodluck.and have a nice date.
2007-01-20 20:05:00 · answer #4 · answered by valy718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out in person u could say " i really like u, will u go out w/ me?" but if u get 2 nervous maybe u could have a friend ask her if she likes u. and u could go 2 the movies 4 a date.
2007-01-20 20:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by brunette babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just ask her out in a cool non shy kinda way she'll think u so smooth if u dont get all sappy with letters - texts are cool. Do it when u see her or after so she'll feel like after u seen her u was still thinkin bout her
2007-01-20 20:05:18 · answer #6 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't use IM's its not good, a letter is a better option but really face to face is the best way, or a card
2007-01-20 20:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her in person.
you can take her to the movies and invite other friends so that y'all don't fell uncomfortable if that is alright with the both of y'all.
2007-01-20 20:06:26 · answer #8 · answered by plazndrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wear animal skins only . don't wash your hair . don't shave . no shoes. no bath or shower. then just drag her by the hair give her some food and wine then drag her to your cave
2007-01-20 20:04:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her in person and ask her
2007-01-20 20:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋