I didn't want to tell her that I loved her until it was right, and it felt right to me, I guess I was moving a little fast because a few days after that she told me that she was scared by that because someone told her that before then he played her and she was scared that I would do that too. I'm asking everyone out there, what does this mean, and how can I fix it?
2007-01-20 11:59:16 · 10 answers · asked by Diesel of tha SCGC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't fix it. Only she can. But you can help by taking it easy. Don't push for a response. Just tell her that you care about her a lot and would try to never to do anything to hurt her. Keep doing what you've been doing in the past. If you went out on dates, do that, hang out, talk, take it easy.
It's nothing regarding you. She's just scared to be hurt again, and it's understandable. It just means that she needs time, time to get over her fear, time to see that you're better than the last guy she was with.
2007-01-20 12:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by zoastriastar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are saying that the girl you are dating says that you are moving too fast. You do not mentioned how long you were dating her before you told her you loved her, but the guy usually has to go slow and easy so, as to get to know the girl, before saying those famous words. If you really like her not love her as you say, because love comes later with time when you date her for at least three mos. My suggestion to you is, let her be at ease with you so as she can get some confidence and trust in you, make small talk with her ask her what are her likes and dislikes, and eventually you will see that she will be at ease with you and will be glad when you both are together. Good luck and I hope it all works out for you.
2007-01-20 12:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say dont bring it up for awile i know that it is going toi be hard since you love her but if hse is scared then just be there for her and dont leave her casue if you do then she will have more issues with loving someone prove to her you are not leaving and then tell her again but wait a long time before you say it again if anything let her say it first
2007-01-20 12:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by sororitychick_112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her something like I love baby girl u mean every thing to me and I do not want any thing to change.
2007-01-20 12:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Heather M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you respect her feelings and you will go slower. If you really care about her, she will see this over time and will calm down and learn to trust you and what you say.
2007-01-20 12:03:46 · answer #5 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making the relationship move to fast.
The only thing you can do is slow down
2007-01-20 12:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's been hurt in the past. Give her time. If she can deal with it. She'll be back. Don't rush it. Time heels all wounds.
2007-01-20 12:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has been badly hurt in the past and she doesnt want the same thing to happen again..just take things slowly and keep reassuring her.
2007-01-20 12:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u aint like that other person n u will take it day by day n see what happens. and that ull show her that u will do right by her
2007-01-20 12:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs some time off
2007-01-20 12:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋