Ok I really love my boyfriend we went together when I was in the 9th grade, but he broke up with me after omly three months because he thought I was cheating on him(but I wasn't). So now we are back together and I am in the 11th grade now i love him so much and the truth is that I never stopped loving him since we were together when I was in the 9. But I think I love him too much and i don't want to rush things but I don't want him to get bored with me either. So can someone please help me out with my problem am i head over hills or whar?
2007-01-20 11:57:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not that you love him TOO much. You're experiencing a lot of different emotions which can seem overwhelming and take over a huge part of your thoughts day to day. With expressing or demanding too much you can actually turn him off. Step back and have some you time. Do things outside of the relationship that have nothing to with him but make you happy. If he's yours he'll be there regardless but also take into account he accused you just two years ago of being a liar so he may have some issues. You can sensitive, caring and giving without it being everyday and all the time for him to believe you. Rushing isn't necessary. You have forever to show him how you feel and you're only a teenager now. Have a little talk with him about how you feel and your fear that you don't want to smother him. You both should discuss your true expectations of a relationship so there isn't a mystery. Besides if you're always available and giving everything you have, what is there to look forward to?
2007-01-20 12:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible if it is the right person. the one will love you back that much. You just feel this way because you are so young. being in 11th grade is an early time to find a husband. Just make sure he knows you love him but also make it interesting. but if he does get bored, he wasn't the one. and it is his loss. Some guys can't deal with that kinda commentment.
2007-01-20 20:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by gotoward_thelight 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived next door to a couple who were always giving each other beatings. I mean they got into some serious fights. Colorful bruises, heads through the windows,stuff like that. I would talk to them and each one was sure it was because they loved the other too much. I kind of understood just not enough to answer your question. I will be interested in your responses.
2007-01-20 20:07:51 · answer #3 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really care about the guy! Its been about 2 years, since ya'll broke up, and now you are back together... and if you still have strong feelings for him... then it sure does mean something! Normally, people would've moved on by now! But you are still by his side... and I think thats so sweet. But does he feel the same about you? You don't want to get too many feelings, and he turns his back on you again. Hope everything works out for ya girl!
2007-01-20 20:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to get you off the subject. You think you are so much head-over-heels with this. Just wait until you become a Grand Parent. That's when you really know what true Love is. Not until then.
2007-01-20 20:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think before we answer that question, I would at lease like to listen to your definition of rush. That plays a big factor when your primary question includes "too much" of something.
2007-01-20 20:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by rapxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is a such thing as to much love. U don't really explain your behavior pattern towards him so I cant really tell u if u do love him way to much or not.
2007-01-20 20:02:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love him as much as you want but do not rush things. If you do things will only get worse and the thrill of the relationship wears off.
2007-01-20 20:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by penpal_247 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of people feel like this..its perfectly normal..just take things easy..dont talk about marriage or babies..keep things to yourself and u will b fine.
2007-01-20 20:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but just try to relax let him know this is how u feel so he can deal with it wen u might get a lil silly but relax an try antake it as it comes day by day
2007-01-20 20:02:43 · answer #10 · answered by nathan b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋