There's this guy I know. Let's say his name is Jim. Well, Jim is being very strange lately. Sometimes he just randomly wraps his arm around my shoulder. One time when he made me mad, he put his arms around me and said he was sorry.
At a lock-in, John, two friends, and me went around the church, chasing each other in the dark. John and I were on the stairs and he grabbed my hand. He held it for a second, then dropped it. The whole night he kept touching me in the middle of the back, and walking around with his hand on my back. When the four of us friends were going to go into the basement, he told me not the be scared, that he'd hold me the whole time.
Later that night he found out that I like him. For a while he stayed away, but I caught him staring at me a lot. Then he went back to acting like he did.
Then when I told him not to touch me, he said that I should get used to it. I don't understand at all! I like this guy, but he's acting so strange! What should I do????
2007-01-20 11:48:55 · 20 answers · asked by Faith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry... I used two names for the same guy... it's all one guy.
2007-01-20 11:52:35 · update #1
I don't believe in dating, that's why I don't want him to touch me!
2007-01-20 11:55:56 · update #2
if you like him why did you tell him not to touch you
2007-01-20 11:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by KodyCuddleBiscuit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, if you like this boy, why did you tell him not to touch you? It probably caught him off guard when he found out that you liked him, so he backed off just to make sure that you were still into him. Then when he realized that you weren't just playing around with his emotions, he went back to the way things were. If a guy likes you and they touch you like that, it's not a bad thing sweetie. If your hoping that you two do wind up together, he's going to want to be able to put his arm around you, hold your hand, and things like that, so yeah, just get used to it. If it makes you that uncomfortable, tell him. He should understand.
2007-01-20 11:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girls don't understand boys and boys don't understand girls. When he didn't know you liked him he was attracted to you sounds like and when he found he kinda backed away to a certain extent. You seemed to be good friends and that's how some good relationships work. Take time out and talk to him and see where it goes. Find out how he feels and tell him how you feel and if everything works out then you have no worries.
2007-01-20 11:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by doodie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John..I mean Jim, sounds like a bad boy with sinful thoughts on his mind. Report him to the Preacher asap so he can have his willy wanked.
2007-01-20 11:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything strange other than the fact that u say u like him but u told him not to touch u. I feel like he is being pretty straight forward with the fact that he likes u
2007-01-20 11:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
John jim What you confusing me well ill tell you what he likes you
2007-01-20 11:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Realdeal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you, but theres a hindrance between the two of you. Maybe he has a girlfriend.
2007-01-20 11:55:09 · answer #7 · answered by Nanshi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just ask him if he likes you ( i know it hard but he giving u all the signal that he likes you) don't be scared of rejection cause it better to have love and lost then never at all.
2007-01-20 11:55:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to him more and if he sends out more signals, just ask him point blank, does he like you.
2007-01-20 11:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by newssavvydiva87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably unsure if he should "go there" with you and now he realizes that he does like you.
2007-01-20 11:54:30 · answer #10 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋