my girlfriend is pretty, funny, sweet, caring, adorable, helpful, smart, EVERYTHING GOOD. She even takes care of MY son and he likes her alot. I love her so much.
BUT i met this girl a couple of days ago who asked me out well shes BEAUTIFUL, the most beautiful girl ive ever seen, i dont even know her real well but shes SO HOT idk what to do i really WANT HER but how do i break up with my girlfriend ? should i break up with her ?
2007-01-20 11:46:49 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why ruin a good thing dude. It's just lust that you are feeling.
2007-01-20 11:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Now I think that you can't judge a person off looks. Yes, the new girl could be the girl of your dreams but you have to figure out if your current girlfriend is worth giving up. It is pretty risky though, because you could lose a very great thing in order to persue another and the other might not be as sweet. I think you really need to think of how much you care about the girlfriend you have now and really think if she is worth it to you, from what I see, I think she is you are just not appreciating it to the fullest.
2007-01-20 11:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because a girl is pretty does not mean she has the qualities you want in a girl. I would suggest you not break up with your current girlfriend. Very often beautiful women are so into themselves and think they should be treated like a queen that you won't be happy trying to make her happy.
2007-01-20 11:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sleep deprived? Your GF is "everything good" and you want to leave for a piece of hot snatch?
Well, at least you don't want to cheat and seem to be TRYING to avoid doing the totally wrong thing. But what if this new chick is a total you know what, hates your kids, lies to you, isn't good in bed, smells and on and on? You'll be sooo screwed with the old GF. Doesn't she (and your kid) deserve better?
What you're describing of your feelings isn't love for your GF. It's something else. I don't know what. But love doesn't cut and run for some poonanny.
Besides, who says the new chick wants you too?
I think it's funny that almost EVERYONE is saying the same thing. Dude...
2007-01-20 11:52:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Still thinking with the wrong head. Let your girlfriend go. Try being honest with her, which I know probably sounds foreign to you. She'll be fine after awhile, and you'll be stuck with someone who is probably as superficial as you. She'll move on and find a guy who will love and cherish her and thank their lucky stars that she let you go. Mean while, your lust will wear out, or hers and both of you will be looking for the next victim. Either that, or one of you will grow up. Wait till you get older, and long for that trusting, loving relationship. Too late. You reap what you sew in life. My 40+ years have taught me one thing, "everyone has problems or faults". What you think looks perfect is just an illusion.
2007-01-20 12:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by Lance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either incredibly ignorant, and completly unaware of how lucky you are to have your girlfriend, or you do not really love her.
Loving someone isn't keeping them around until someone hotter shows you a little attention... is this new girl even going to be around in a month? If you don't want to date your girlfriend anymore, then show her the door. But don't do it just because you got a little attention from someone else
So, my answer is that 1. You need to revise your statement...." I love my girlfriend but i want to break up with her." If you're willing to break up with her for this other woman, you don't love her at all. Broseph.
2007-01-20 11:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kidding, right? If the reason you want to go out with this other girl is because she's beautiful, I feel sorry for your girlfriend. The reason why is because you've detailed a lot of good things about your girlfriend. You haven't given a good reason to break up with her.
All you're feeling is lust. You're in a stable relationshipn (I'm guessing) with a girl who is helpful, loving, cares about your son. I imagine she does a lot of things for you because she loves you. And yet you're ready to betray her for a hot fling?
I'd say, stay with your girlfriend. She doesn't deserve to be dumped for a stupid reason.
2007-01-20 11:53:27 · answer #7 · answered by zoastriastar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about love, not lust or looks? Do you love your gf who has been there for you and cared for your son? This hot girl who is beautiful could be a real %$#@$! If you really don't want to be with your gf end it. But you may be sorry she sounds like a great girl!
2007-01-20 11:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree, don't ruin a good thing. The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Never give up love for lust, it won't last. If you must be with the new girl, however, break up with your girlfriend. Being cheated on by someone you love is one of the most horrible feelings ever.
2007-01-20 11:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by Legal Eagle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure you are doing the right thing by breaking up with your girlfriend for someone you don't even know. beauty is only skin deep. I don't think you really love your girlfriend. if so you would not be doing this. just make sure you love this girl more than you love your girlfriend. and if i were your girlfriend, I'd get somebody to kick your a*s!!!
this better not be Chris.
2007-01-20 11:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause you think you met someone beautiful doesn't mean get rid of something that's good for you. this girlfriend you have is beautiful; she loves you, is funny, takes care of your kid. that's what you really need and want. looks aren't anything. this new, hot chick might really be an ugly person once you get to know her.
if this doesn't help, i say get to know the new girl, but only dump your girlfriend for something legit, not because you think you found something better.
2007-01-20 11:51:20 · answer #11 · answered by Chris C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋