4 years ago my friends ex boyfriend came to visit. I met him and we became friends. We talked on and off for 9 months. Finally I went to see him and the feelings fell into place. The only thing is my friend did not know. She knew we were talking but that was it. I saw him on and off for 1.5 years but then my friend and I moved in together. I decided that I didn't want to risk that friendship so I stopped talking to him. Over the holidays her ex (4.5 years seperated), her, and I all went out. We met up with a bunch of our other friends. I had not seen him for 2 years but my stomach went all into knots. My heart was beating fast and I felt myself falling for him again. We have continued to talk after the holidays but we keep it hidden because I still live with her. She and I are great friends most of the time. It is the usual girls talking behind each others backs though. He is now talking about us getting married, we haven't even dated. I don't know if I should continue.
2007-01-20 11:42:47 · 4 answers · asked by Questionqueen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know if I should continue talking to him. If she ever finds out, I will lose a lot of friends.
2007-01-20 11:43:19 · update #1
Some people have asked what happened between them. They dated for 2.5 years and he was her first everything. He is such a nice guy that he never really cut her off. She wasnt his firsts of anything but they were in love. After they broke up and he and I were Just Friends. They did mess around a bit but he ended that soon after their break up so about 4 years ago.
2007-01-20 12:07:40 · update #2
it has been almost 5 years since they dated. if she is not over him by now then she has problems. date him, or risk not meeting someone you are that compatable with again for a long time.
2007-01-20 11:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by ninecoronas2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they r TRUE FRIENDS they will accept what you think. If not you shouldn't have friends that don't believe in you. Listen to what they say because they might change your mind about. I don't know what happened between her & him, but unless something REALLY SERIOUS happened to them I'd go for it! Try and talk to your friend b4 he shows up agian or she'll totaly freak!
2007-01-20 11:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bf will never last but gf will last a lifetime. Dont ruin your friendship with them over a guy.
2007-01-20 11:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont
2007-01-20 11:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋