should we afford to give our heart plainly to someone else again if we had terribly suffered from a previous relationship ? I don't know but, will we be able to trust someone as before ..? do you think that could be possible ?
2007-01-20 11:35:58 · 2 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You seem to have quite a few questions about this. Yes, this is the second one I answered of yours. It is a psychological experiment for me--since we are in similar situations, I am wondering if answering your questions will reveal anything to myself about my own questions.
Anyway, I find that I am having a hard time trusting people at all, even others of my own sex. However, I have become closer with a few people as friends. Some of them are of the opposite sex, and I have noticed myself wondering if, since I trust them, dating would work. The problem is that they, too, seem afraid to put their hearts into a romance, in fear that they will be broken. So what I should really wonder is if they will see that since I, too, have had my heart broken, they can trust me not to break their hearts.
For the record, I actually met someone recently who originally said he likes being single, and he does not want to date anyone. Likewise, I told him that I am too scarred by my past to date for now. Yesterday, I talked to him about my ex, and he said he almost wanted to cry because he felt really bad that I had been treated like that. Later on, he complimented a picture of myself that I really hate, and said that I should pull my hair back more often because you can see more of my face. This does not make me sure that he has hidden feelings for me, but it really makes me wonder.
Again, please e-mail me about this; I would like to talk about our misfortunes. I would e-mail you, but I am very tired right now.
2007-01-20 16:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship is different..and it's hard to trust someone when you were hurt before but you have to because that is life you have to start again because some day the wright person can come THE ONE and you may not see that because of your not trusting life is a risk and we were all hurt but you allways have to start again untill you find what you are looking for just relaxe and enjoy....be happy
2007-01-20 19:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋