2007-01-20 11:19:05 · 11 answers · asked by rasheL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is up to you when to say enough is enough. One can love someone but when you are continually treated badly, that is when you have to love yourself more. One human being does not have the right to treat another human being like trash. : (
I hope you find your strength..... good luck. : )
2007-01-20 11:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't make u a loser. it just shows that u have a great heart and u are a very forgiving person and that u are more willing to put someone else ahead of your own feelings and sometimes thats ok to do if the other party is willing to do the same. If not then as hard as it is to do u need to leave that person alone at least for a while until u get enough guts and courage and knowledge to know that u deserve the same things u dish out
2007-01-20 19:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not going got make you a natural born loser, but I do strongly suggest that you get rid of the loser. No one deserves to be treated like trash, doesn't matter who you are. Everyone deserves to be treated like gold in a relationship. All your going to wind up doing is hurting yourself in the long run by staying with someone that treats you like dirt. Your are going to wind up not trusting anyone, not having any self-esteem, and not having any over all sense of worth. I would say to get rid of the loser and find someone that treats you like you should be treated.
2007-01-20 19:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by redheadedmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u continue to stay with someone who treats you bad?? i ask my dad the same thing everyday hes been married to my mom 28 yrs and they fight everyday because my mom treats him and everyone like crap but he loves her and he wont let her leave although shes ruining his life. love can make someone do some pretty stupid things. ur not a loser unless u see urself as one. just trust that he will treat you better and change for the best thats all u can do. i wish u the best of luck, its hard being in a relationship with someone who treats u like trash because love is blind.... i mean it will make not see the way they treat u, and u think they will never hurt u again. i was in a relastionship with someone who treated me bad and lets just say it really affected my life dramatically!
2007-01-20 19:27:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, love is blind. But why waste time with someone who doesn't deserve you? I'm sure you will find someone far better than this guy.
Are you helpless and rely on him? This is not a third world country. Even in the third world country, I don't think anyone would stick around with someone like that. He is a loser - not you. Move on, sweetie!
2007-01-20 19:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a loser but it shows that you have deep feelings for this person. Trust me you will get fed up and leave on your own time. No matter what anyone says you have to be tired of being treated like crap!!!
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2007-01-20 19:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No.. but it makes them a looser for treating you like trash.. u deserve better and right now you may not know it but the time will come and you will break free..
2007-01-20 19:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it wont make you a loser however i suggest getting out of that relationship as fast as you can because you dont deserve to be treated like that you are not trash and i hope you dont think you are please dont stay with someone like that you are giving them more incentive when they are done with you to pray on the next victim and you would not want some one else getting treated like that. please be true to yourself
2007-01-20 19:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by sororitychick_112 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...mabey a little just playing but if hes treating you like trash swetty why are you still with him im sure your a great person and you deserve someone who would treat you right
2007-01-20 19:22:52 · answer #10 · answered by BLI-BLI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋