2007-01-20 11:16:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, in my case and i assume all females, when i have an orgasm the muscles contract pretty hard in that area and my boyfriend can definately feel it with his penis or his fingers or whatever is there! LOL! Also, and this is only from my experience, the female gets much much wetter. I think every muscle in my body tenses up also!! LOL!
2007-01-20 11:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a very small percentage of women actually "squirt", so you might want to get over that notion. Female orgasm is actually very complex and individualized. It's not like men where it's very easy for them to just do it and orgasm every time. With women it often takes longer and each woman needs a special technique in order for her to get there. That's why it's so important for men to take their time getting to know what she likes. Communicate and ask her what makes her feel good. Did you know that only about 10% of women orgasm from intercourse alone, so keep that in mind. Most will need some external stimulation as well. And as far as them "faking it", that's just something you may never figure out. It's very easy to fake (yes, we've all done it at some point) and women fake it for different reasons. Sometimes if they just want to get it over with, and sometimes if they just don't feel like it's going to happen and they want their partner to feel good about the job he's doing. Sorry, but you just never know (unless of course she's a squirter). Some men claim that they feel a squeezing deep inside as a woman climaxes, but again every woman is different. Also remember that not all women are loud when they orgasm. Sometimes it just feels so good for me that I don't make a sound and just enjoy the moment, then later my boyfriend would ask why it didn't feel good when all the time I was thinking how incredible it was! All you can do is ask her, trust what she says, and if she keeps coming back for more you know you're doing something right!
2016-05-24 02:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think for a woman to fake it - she's got to be good. Unless of course you really are clueless? The two types of intimate arousal, both give very different orgasms. Get her to have both at the same time, there is no way she could fake that.
2007-01-20 11:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by Agony Aunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breathing patterns will tell you. Fast pulsating breathing followed by quivering. There is no confusing the real thing from fake.
2007-01-20 11:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by sweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While she is orgasming she will get much more wet.
It will seem like a sudden surge of juices down there.
2007-01-20 11:20:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't. That's the beauty of being a woman.
2007-01-20 11:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by bedhead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, women are really good at faking it and get away with it. But if you with your partner for quite awhile then you should know how she is when she please or not...
2007-01-20 11:25:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is by far my fav question on this site so far, i fake it sometimes, and hubby never noticed...... i guess if she cums, you should feel it, but you can have an orgasm without ejaculation,, ive heard.
2007-01-20 11:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
taste the juices dude
2007-01-20 11:21:30 · answer #9 · answered by *********3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. If you are worried about this, your relationship has other problems.
2007-01-20 11:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋