why does this happen to me i am a pearson and i just can not get my life to be any happier and my sister is like so freaken mad that i hate i ever and i wish i can do something and i can't but sometimes i think i should go to live by my own but then i am only a littel girl and i don' t know what to do my dad can't take me because he has a gamblin deisns and i don' t know what to do why does this have to be so hard and eveerything i do i get blamed for evereything has to be so hard
2007-01-20 11:15:31 · 9 answers · asked by sneakysammy2296 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think you should go talk to your teachers at school or an adult relative that you can trust and that can help you, don't be afraid i know how you feel i know ALOT of people who like you and some are even worst and the ended up going to a person who talks about your feelings and stuff like that. GOOD LUCK
2007-01-20 11:21:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey I hate to tell you this but you are just having a child hood moment here. If you want to know how truly unfair life can be take a look at the lady down the street trying to make her house payments and buy food for her kids while her husband is shacked up across town with the local whore.
Or look on the other side of the street were children are being beaten by parents that are either drunk or crack addicts.
Try figuring out how to keep your power on for one more month, or trying to keep the repo man from taking your car that you have to have to get to your dead end job. Then figure how to make 30 bucks feed a family of five for six days.
I guess my point here is if you think life is unfair right now. You are definitely gonna think it's the shits when you get out in the real world, out of mom's house.
2007-01-20 14:25:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i cant really give you an answer on why life is so hard for some and really easy for others however i beleive that some bad things must happen to people at some time. maybe all your bad luck is hitting you hard right now and i know it is hard to think about but others are worse off then you some people are starving out there others have their parents taken from them from a car crash i know it is hrad right now but live on and never give up dont let people get you down you should be in control of how you feel and when the time is right move out and live the life you had been waiting for best of luck
2007-01-20 11:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by sororitychick_112 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hey,
i know how life sucks and its unfair...i had a ****** up family also and when i was crying at night in my bed i was wondering why life is being so unfair to me, what the hell did i do wrong, why do i have to suffer so much? Because, for example, I had a friend who had a perfect family, a perfect dad a mom that loved her so much and they were rich so they could go on holidays together and they had fun...i always wanted to be her...
no, the only thing YOU can do is to STAY strong and dont let others bring you down, fight for yourself, be powerful...if you feel like giving up talk to yourself and talk yourself out of it...try to do the things that make you happy in life...or find at least one thing...
hope you'll do well...remember, keep your head up and believe in yourself. you will go away from them all one day, I am 18 now and I left...life is so beautiful now.
p.s! if you need any help you can E-mail me
2007-01-20 11:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mariella Williams 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Your age will help us to know how to give you advice. Life is hard no matter what you do to make it easy. Rich or poor, short or tall, life will always be hard. Just take things a day at a time and pray and ask God to help you solve the problems of life.
2007-01-20 11:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by cardo11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im like that too, not everything is hard, its the erson behind it makes it hard, i have a good point. use this stragedy, tekll me whats wrong, and i can email it to you. MasterRaffi@yahoo.com. u said something about your sister, what did your sister do to you that makes it hard, and say that everything is getting hard? and your saying life getting any better, u can make it better, by not interfering with your sister, and getting along with your sib-lings! u said that your the little girl. so the big sister should look upon the little one. so you can be grown up, and be mature.
2007-01-20 11:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not a teenager yet expect it to get worse its the hardest time of your life i believe.
2007-01-20 17:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to a counseler at your school
or like one of your relatives like gma or aunt or somthing
and just tell them how you feel
im sorry
2007-01-20 20:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take thing as they come. Y have to put up whit thing.
2007-01-20 11:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by honey.. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋