what can i do 2 stop?

Question

i have cut my wrists twice and i promised my bf that i wouldent do it again but what can i do 2 stop?

Answer 1

you can tell ur boyfriend (who must be a complete loonatic also) to throw u into a nutt house the next time u cut urself and throw himself in one too for dating a kook like u..no seriously go get help cus some day u might cut a vein and bleed to death or cut a ..the part that holds ur muscles together..idk anyways that and u'll be messed up for lyfe..U'll be sorry..Omg stop cutting urself. That does nothing for u go buy a punching bag and whenever u feel like cutting urself go punch tha bag or buy a barbie and cut her up instead of urself....gosh.

Answer 2

Put a rubber band/hair tyre on your wrist every time you think about it flick your wrist. You will still feel pain (if you do it long and hard enough) it still could bleed and you still could get a scar. This is just one step down for cutting... however it isn't a cure! Keeping your mind off it is a good idea by running or going on the computer etc.

Answer 3

i have cut myself more times then i can remember and each time i promised someone else that i would stop i never did. i stopped holding everything in and taking everything personal it wasnt easy people i loved where hurt by some of the things i said but the ones who still talked to me are the ones that are my true friends they would rather i hurt their feelings then hurt myself.by the way when i decided to stop cutting for good the first couple of times i felt the urge i punched the side of a house as hard as i could that hurt and bruised so then i moved on to walking far distances (2 miles) right as felt overwhelmed and that is the therapy that works for me sometimes i walk till im ready to drop but its good for you and it realeases chemicals that make you feel better its like the perfect medicine. i hope this helped you i think youll be alright though you obviously want to be or you wouldnt have asked this question so keep that in mind okay?

Answer 4

Have you told anyone in person about this? I have been cutting recently and in the past when I finally tell someone that is the ultimate release or at least a start in the right direction. Cutting can def be like a damn drug. Tell someone what is up.

Answer 5

You need to help. it so hard to do on your own and your boyfriend wanting you too isn't going to make you especialyl since he probably does not understand what you're going through. talking to someone like a mentor, conselour, or even physciatrist is perfectly normal and is most likely what you need. If you use self inflinction as your coping mechanism then you need to find a different way to cope. i hope this helps, and good luck!

Answer 6

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Answer 7

well, analyze why you did it. then do something else instead. now is the time to act so i'm glad you asked. there are som many other things that you can do instead like arts, sports, or hobbies to take the place of cutting for whatever reason you did it

Answer 8

ive cut before, but to stop when ever i wanted to i woudl go on a run instead, away from every thing with just me and my music. also, think abou t why you cut...? is there even a reason? but please stop, its terrible and your bf is there to help you, talk to him, saying, "promise youll stop" isnt good enough. good luck, and stop!!! :]

Answer 9

this is a serious matter my second oldest son does this and is in the mental health hospital righr now i feel he does this when he cannot handle pressure or wants attention you need to get some help so you can lead a happier life please go for help

Answer 10

You need to get into some crisis intervention counseling and some support groups to help you work through your suicidal thoughts/tendencies. Good luck.