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Question

i have found myself hating all the people around me for no reason at all.im always arguin with my mum,having a fight with my sister i no it might be that yes im a girl and yes i have started my period but its like,every day. i suffer really bad stress an there are days when i think why bother.lately i have discovered self harm and im addicted to it.it gives me a sense of relief.im too embaressed to talk to anyone about this and i dont know what to do.

Answer 1

You need peace in your heart and some vitamins for your body.
Suggestion: Just ask Jesus Christ to fill your heart with His Love and Peace. Also, to overcome or to go through pms a little easier, find some red raspberry leaf tea, and eat more fresh ORGANIC fruits and vegetables.

Answer 2

Just picking up on that too embarrassed to talk to anyone. Well there is your mother. You have half of her chromosomes, and she has known you for all of your life. Yeah I know girls are born superior to their mothers but she is the closest person you're likely to get whose going through what your feeling.

Then there are your friends. Much better than a sexist bloke like me on Yahoo answers. Chances are they're not finding life that easy at the moment either.

But really you don't want to have a pity party. Why not celebrate your puberty? After all we were celebrating Christmas a month ago and remembering how the Almighty himself inhabited a womb, so what is happening to you is all part of nature's plan. So feel good about yourself. Invite you friends round for a puberty party. Go out and buy bras and pantie pads and frilly briefs and make up and so on, and treat yourselves to a meal out somewhere, and have a right giggle. By the way Mums should be invited as well. In fact you need to tap into their cash and experience, which you will probably find invaluable. What I'm hoping is that you'll find time to talk, and your mums will open up and tell what it was like for them, and guide you into making the best choices for what you want to buy.


The other parts of your question have been adequately answered by other respondents

Answer 3

Get an appt with a doc or go to an emergency room if you feel you cant stop the cutting. You have a lot inside of you that you are trying to get out and whether it be through words or cutting it seems you are embarrassed either way. If you hit up a doc they will know more options of what to do and they have heard lots of cases like this not to belittle yours. You are going through a rough time and its okay to ask for help. I actually kinda have to do the same thing myself here pretty soon for the same reasons. Its hard but I dont want to keep cutting and you shouldnt either. good luck and at least tell one person what is up.

Answer 4

Families are hard to deal with. It's easy to get frustrated by them and angry. You do sound stressed out and your self harm is a way of you actively doing something about the pain you feel. Try to find the root cause of your stress and then try to find a way of changing your environment for the better. I used to self harm and i understand the release of your pain from doing it, but it is not the answer. It will solve nothing and only leave you with scars for the rest of your life. I hope things get better for you, as I am sure they will, even if it dosn't feel like it now. Don't get upset by the arguments you are having and perhaps what has been said to you during them. Things are said in the heat of anger that are not meant. Take care of yourself and nothing in life is worth worrying about, you'll be ok :)

Answer 5

This guy doznt sound suitable to u. Decide whether u want him or no. Bcoz, once u get him back, ull give him a point of view that u want him very badly though he doznt want u. He'll definitely take advantage over ur love for him. But, do u know for sure whether he loves u or no. Bcoz many guyz now a ays keep gals only for the sake of it. They only wana show off that they have a gal. Confirm it without him knowin whether he loves u or no. If he really does, then go sit with him and sort it out. But if he doesnt, t is ur luck that u got to know him much earlier b4 gettin cheated. ALL THE BEST!!!

Answer 6

I'm not sure how to help with the emotional side of things in this respect but can certainly help with the self harm bit. When you feel like harming yourself try holding an ice cube on your skin in the same place for a while,It does hurt honestly but causes no permanant damage.Might be worth visiting a doctor about the emotions they come across this type of thing all the time.Hope this helps.

Answer 7

The people above me who blew off your question either didn't read it or are idiots. The arguing-totally normal. The self harm-you need help. Are there any reliable adults that you can talk to? If your school has a conselour, USE IT! If your parents are the only ones you can turn to, then you'll just have to suck it up and do it. You need help.

Good luck.

Answer 8

oh sweetheart, i know how you are feeling. I felt the same as you at 17 and tried to take my own life!
But my dog saved me he howled til my mum came in, it was the lowest point of my life Hun.
But know i am married have 3 wonderful kids and the best thing i did was get help hunni. There is no shame in asking for help, i know that now but did not back then.
all my love
C.J
xxxxxx

Answer 9

You are going to have to get over it and talk to someone close about this. Talking is one of the best ways to release inner tension. If you don't you may become more addicted to self inflicted harm or worse, and no one around you wants this to happen to you. Try friends and family first if that doesn't work, try your school councilor, if that doesn't work, try therapy. Eventually you will be able to find someone you can talk to about this. Whatever you do, don't try to resort to medication. They just numb the pain, they don't make it go away.

Answer 10

Becky I think you have depression, go see your doctor asap there are lots of medicines that will help you, Please don't self harm You will get better and you will enjoy life again, do not be embarrassed there are thousands of people with the same problem you have and have been cured can you confide in your best mate sometimes that alone will help you. Good Luck Becky.