i am so sick of being on a different level with the people i've been dating. everything in this damn country (usa) is so messed up and people don't even realise it. yeah i'm in a bad mood right now but i'm so freaking pissed off by this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! why do guys think they have to make more money than you so you could have a perfect relationship, why is it cool for men to sleep with like a 100 women and it's cool and if a woman does it she's a slut. why should women sit at home and clean while the men go out for a beer.........??? omg i'm so annoyed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-20 10:45:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and yes mary w i have been dating men from the hood
2007-01-20 11:04:24 · update #1
woman I 'm with you about everything you said and you have a wright to be anoyed .....and as for those guys f*** them
the worst part is thet ther are some women that agrie with their opinon STAY STRONG STAY BEAUTIFUL MAKE MORE MONEY AND DON'T WORY YOU'LL FIND A GUY THAT IS NOT LIKE THAT JUST TAKES TIME
2007-01-20 11:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let's take this a step at a time shall we.
Many guys think they have to make more money so they can provide for their woman not even close to all but many.
It's not "cool" for men to sleep with 100 women, they are considered trash and a lower life form. It's only they guys they run with who thinks it's "cool". I don't.
The only reason the woman should sit at home and clean while the guys go out for beers and such is that's the way they were brought up. their fathers probably did it and it rubbed off on the kid.
I just want you to know that I don';t think like this at all. I could care less who makes more money (I'm an artist and artists usually don't make that much at a time). I've never cheated on any of my girlfriends nor did I cheat on my ex wife and I never will, it's the way I was raised and I NEVER go out for a beer or anything like that cause I don't drink. I can't stand the smell of beer or booze, it makes me sick.
Don't be annoyed, you just haven't found the right guy YET but you will if you keep looking and don't settle for the first guy that fills most of your requirements. The first thing is you have to be true to yourself.
Good luck and above all be happy.
2007-01-20 20:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy is going to keep doing whatever he was doing before he met you. Beers with the guys, playing video games, golf. The only thing we believe is supposed to change is now we can't sleep with other women. Don't start cleaning up the house until he's committed to setting up house. Until then, you need to keep doing whatever you were doing. Hang out with the girls, let guys buy you drinks, shop or whatever. I'm just sayin'.
2007-01-20 18:56:54 · answer #3 · answered by jax0817 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's really weird. But it's like the way society works. Guys sleep with a bunch of women and he's just a legend. A girl will sleep with one guy and she'll be automatically called a whore. Guys actually make more money than girls, they are portrayed in art more superior than women. It's a vicious vicious system, but what can we do? We have to live with it and make the best of it.
2007-01-20 18:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok, my family is from Mexico,the girls in the house cook, clean and take care of kids while guys go to work. Sometimes I wish i could go work but then who is going to to cook, clean, take care of kids?we are taught to clean and cook when we are young and my brothers work with my dad in construction since they were like 10 or 11. Thats how we do everything, but it also depends on culture and where you come from.
2007-01-20 18:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea how old you are... but from your question, you have alot of growing up to do, and need to face some reality.
There are things in life that can be changed, most things actually, but it takes time and patience. Women have greater opportunities ... if we take them... Sounds like you are dating men from the hood. Try a college campus, or business arena where men are used to treating women as an equal... just be prepared to have to work hard and stand up for yourself.
2007-01-20 18:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by mary w 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I know the feeling the man has to smarter or make more money or even be more educated so it lowers the standard for women.
2007-01-20 18:55:47 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i completely agree with you. this society takes women as a joke. it always makes us look less than men.
2007-01-20 18:50:01 · answer #8 · answered by mcrlover862 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because its what we are taught by our culture. It may not be fair, but thats the way it is :/
2007-01-20 18:50:05 · answer #9 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree with you.
2007-01-20 18:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋