2007-01-20 10:43:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I presume you don't intend to sing "Ah Leah" or "Love Is Like A Rock" to her. Seriously though, begin a friendly conversation with her and get to know her over time. After a series of small conversations where you find out things that interest her (you can determine how long to get to know her), then ask her out to something simple, like lunch or coffee. Keep it low-pressure and then if that goes well, ask her to do something else at the end of the lunch. Good luck.
2007-01-20 10:51:22 · answer #1 · answered by LFM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you just ask her the same you just ask us?
'I think you seem to be a real nice person, but I don't know anything of you. Can I ask you out to find out some more?'
I don't know whether it works, but I would go for the openess. If not done in a double sensed looking way, but just normal.
2007-01-20 18:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by belgium 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First ask yourself why you like her. When you figure that out write down a little speech about why you like her. Don't just tell her she's pretty. The very last thing you should say to her is she's beautiful. When you kinda know what you want to say to her go talk to her and ask her to do something with you.
2007-01-20 18:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Lynze B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't!!!
If things go well, you could put both of you at risk for creating an uncomfortable environment at work- think about the potential for PDA... and what others will think.
If things don't go well, it will make work uncomfortable for you two- breaking up, but still having to spend time together at work... and if she turns out to be a psycho, she could get you in trouble for "sexual harassment"....
Stay friends, wait till one of you isn't working there anymore, then ask her out.
2007-01-20 18:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Yoda's Duck 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out for coffee, chat about the day's events or some mutual experiences at the office. Relax, don't invest so much into the first date. If it works, it works.
2007-01-20 18:47:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont.
Thats the worst thing you can do.
If you talk to her enough over the next month or two without thinking you have to go out with her then this will wear off some kinda quick.
Then you will see her for who she really is and wont be so nervous.
Remember, sexual contact is the underlying motivation for all attraction, whether we admit it or not.
So picture her as a pimply faced 10th grader and you will chat her up alot easier.
2007-01-20 18:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Its me 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
How do you KNOW you like her if you don't even know anything about her? Just think about that one.
But anyway!...
Well you shouldn't ask her out just yet. Try and be friends for a while and learn stuff about her tell her bout yourself too. If she feels the same way, she would want to learn bout you too. If she seems to like you,... after... you introduced then ask her out! Play twenty questions.
ask her a question then give your answer, then it's her turn.
for example....
GIRL: # of pets? 5
BOY: 2 fav. color? blue
GIRL: red
Like that!!!
2007-01-20 18:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by tori 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No situation can't be solved with a good poem. Unfortunately, all I have for you is this one.
I wish I knew you better
Alas, though, I do not
Perhaps we could go out sometime?
I think you're pretty hot.
2007-01-20 18:47:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get to know her a little first. certainly you have something in common if you work together. then, if you find she's single, just ask her out. the worst that can happen is she'll say no.
2007-01-20 18:47:00 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask her questions... get to know her and then pull out the question after a couple of talks.
2007-01-20 18:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋