First time I met her I didn't care for her much, now I think i'm fully blown crazy for her, I thought it was a crush so I just ignored it. Now like 6~ months later I'm still crazy for her. Now I've asked out girls but I've never asked out a friend, you think it'll be weird? I was thinking on asking on valentines day. Any suggestions on what to do on valentines day for her without it being creepy?
2007-01-20 10:38:58 · 21 answers · asked by Bobo K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-20 10:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by Skate and Destroy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best girlfriends usually start out as friends. I would ask her out before Valentines day and then you two can share V-day together. Tell her you got a gift certificate for Christmas for a good restaurant, you had a bad week and you'd like her company for an evening. This is slightly sneaky, but it's romantic and not creepy at all. You just look like a friend in need and she will respond to support you. Then if all goes well, you two will bond and you will feel more comfortable moving forward with the relationship. Try it!
2007-01-20 10:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by selljpk4fun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. I had fallen in love with my male best friend after 2 years. We were very close; knew everything about each other. I thought that he might have feelings for me too since he's told me that I'm an amazing person and on a couple of occasions brushed his hands against mine. I took him out to dinner for his birthday and gave him a card that said I'd like to be more than friends. He didn't say anything and we left the restaurant. I've never heard from him again even though I've left several voicemail messages. I lost my male best friend but I gained so much more in knowing that the man of my dreams has to be someone who is my best friend; my confidant. My point in telling this story, is that people are unpredictable and you're not going to know the outcome unless you find out for yourself. Good luck!
2007-01-20 11:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by selfaware29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not going to be weird. Well, probaly at first. Because you know how friends to this nasty things in front of each other? Probaly when you guys are dating it won't be as open. But if you guys are good friends, you're friendship&relationship will get even better. You should make sure that she likes you,too. Because you don't want to get your heart broken in pieces,right? Valentines Day is a great day. You can even throw a card and a teddy bear to make things even better. Just be yourself on Valentines Day, I don't think that's creepy. I hope not, at least.
2007-01-20 10:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to overwhelm her but just ask her what her plans are for Valentine's day and see what she says. Tell her that you have been friends for a while and have gotten to know her and that there is no one you would rather spend that day with than her because she is special and a wonderful person. Tell her you will do anything she wants as a friend or possibly more is she will spend Valentine's day with you.
2007-01-20 10:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you would do with her on any other day. There is so much pressure on Valentine's Day, that the creepiness factor is going to be there no matter what you do. So, I suggest you ask her out on February 13th and do something fun - like skating or bowling. Then, if it goes well, send red roses to her at work on Valentine's Day.
2007-01-20 10:45:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if i were you i would definitely go for it.
I've been with my boyfriend for about two years now. And before we got together we always had something for each other but never had the guts to say it. finally he came out and i was like OMG i feel the same way too. we've been inseparable since. And just in case it doesn't work remember it was a decision both of you made so try it out there's really nothing to loose.
Good Luck and Best Wishes!!
Betty
2007-01-20 10:52:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right, love does strike some times when you least xpect it.but do you know if she feels the same way or does she just enjoy your friend ship. i think maybe if she does want a relationship she will soon let you know. or just be brave and ask her straight out, what have you got to lose. dont worry to much about valentines day at the moment, there will be plenty more to come.
2007-01-20 11:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by jinxs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't ask her on Valentine's Day. In my mind that day is for established love, not new love.
But if you do, do something friends would do like go watch a movie, casual dinner, I think anything serious would be creepy.
2007-01-20 10:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, for me it was a big mistake. I was best friends recently with a girl who I've known for a year or two. I finally wanted to go out with and stuff, it didn't work out too well. When we were friends, she and I talked plenty, nothing to hold back. When we got together, we were reluctant to say certain things and didn't act like ourselves. Do not date her, dating close friends is a big big mistake.
2007-01-20 10:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that since you've become such good friends, you think that your feeling for her have developed into more than just a friendship. And just see where the conversation goes from there. If she is interested, she'll tell you. If she's not.. then keep on being friends...
2007-01-20 10:43:37 · answer #11 · answered by C F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋