Guys could you help me out here very confused woman??????
met this guy at christmas we got on went away for 2 weeks and he was so sweet wanted to introduce me to his parents everything then....he has only had 2 serious relationships one for five yrs another six months. initially he was texting me all the time really really in to me we even looked at houses spent new years in a hotel together ..then all of a sudden he went cold said he had been thinking about things for a few days and he dint know if he wanted a realtionship..he still talks to me occassionally phones me...tellls me he thinks im lovely i know he still cares...but wants to go out with his mates and doesnt want a serious realtionship right now maybe later...does this mean he just doent want me why do things turn intially i was not even in to him how do i get him back to the way he was whats the best strategy he wont even see me know because he says us having contact make it hard for him whats the best way to be to regain that interest???
2007-01-20 10:35:51 · 12 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweetie,this guy used you.for one thing,now that you and him spent the night together.for get him move on with someone else.just don`t go tto fast.
2007-01-20 10:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has lost interest that is his fault and
probably nothing to do with u.
u may have to accept that he has had a change of heart and
maybe u should move on and try to find someone else.
if he doesn't really want u that way it will be much
better for u not to.
does that make sense?
it is possible he only ventured into this thing to prove to
himself that he is desirable. having proved the point 4 him u are surplus to requirements. i am sorry if he has used u like this.
it may also be that he likes the idea of being in love/having a romance but the practical reality is not quite so exciting.
i wish u all the best.
2007-01-20 10:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-18 19:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't much you can do because, by the time you post this question, you've done about all you can think of, right? Good choices in romantic relationships and quick or 2 weeks just don't go in the same sentence. Yes, his actions, which speak louder than words, mean that he has changed his mind and doesn't want you as he initially did. It's not you, it's him and his wavering.
2007-01-20 10:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't appear needy, if you cling too much, he'll get the impression that you're easy and that's not good. Phone him randomly and say that you don't know if you are wanting a serious relationship either and act like you don't care.
2007-01-20 10:40:40 · answer #5 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want an answer, you need to change the question. He's not coming back to you. this story SCREAMS "other woman". He may say differently, but there's another hen in the house.
2007-01-20 10:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by oceanblue_007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll just have to leave him alone for awhile. Call him in a week or two and maybe he'll miss you and want to hang out.
2007-01-20 10:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by selljpk4fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no affence my girl but he aint coming back to u for nothin. u need to erase him from ur head and look for someone knew. seems like u only knew him 2 minutes n e way
2007-01-20 10:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not interested but doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Look for someone else when your over him.
2007-01-21 06:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
twas xmas only a month a go, give him peace woman!
houses?
it'll be kids next,! me thinks it's too fast 4 him, slow it down some...
heck slow it down a lot...
a morgage aint that great!
2007-01-20 10:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋