When I say good girl I mean: a 4.0 gpa honors student and when I say bad boy I mean: flunked 8th grade, only came to school 2 days in a semester and is known as a 'freak' in the sexually way. Do you think its possible to change him for the better?
2007-01-20 10:35:11 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you spend your life trying to change people you are wasting your time.
the only person you can change is yourself.
2007-01-20 10:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
People can change but the odds are that he won't...Most of the times guys are bad boys have a serious underlying personality disorder...His reputation precedes him and it is up to him to get it back...You are not a pawn in his game...Bad boys can be very charming and he will do exactly as you stated...You are doing the right thing by playing it cool!!
2016-05-24 02:05:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is why do good girls fall for bad boy losers? Answer that. Nice guys finish last and they have to grow up and run some successful company or invent the automatic but wiper. In the meantime they have to marry some overbearing, resentful women or pay strippers for sex the rest of their lives. On the flip side the good girl falls for the uneducated bad boy who won't stay faithful or treat her with respect, all the while praying for him to snap out of it.
Someone answer that!
2007-01-20 11:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
YOU can't change someone but THEY can want to change FOR YOU.....never say something is impossible you (or whoever) just has to look at what is most important to them..for me, i'm a good girl and I have dated semi bad guys and it's been fine but I won't stand for certain things like: laziness, no job, cheating, etc so probably most bad boys have at least one of those qualities...just have to look what the guys good and bad qualities are and if you are willing to deal with the bad as well as the good or if it will stress you out or most importantly change YOU or bring YOU down to that level
2007-01-20 10:39:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know from personal experiance it is NOT possible in any way at all, and infact will only end up causing you heartache in the long run. people are what they are, you cant change a persons nature in the long run, it may work for a while but life has a habbit of testing people and at times of pressure a wild horse will always run.
2007-01-20 10:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. if you had to change someone then thier not the right person for you. and about the "freak" in the sexual way thing...ya cant change that either, im in the same situation with the guy of my dreams...and the only reason he wont go out with me is because im not a slut...so you cant change a person,sorry! but good luck with this! hope everything works out for the best! =]
2007-01-20 10:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by sk8erkat1210 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, and in grade 8 why would you want to. You are 13 years old, and he is too, probably. Be responsible for your own life, your own future, your college education, and drop the "rescue the world" syndrome attitude..... There are just things that can't be fixed... learn that lesson soon, so you don't get dragged into messes that go one your whole lifetime....
2007-01-20 10:40:19 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
who knows. it depends why they dropped out in the first place. is he on drugs? does he have the passion to learn? will he learn from you, because he wants to learn? or learn from you to see you naked?
if he has a learning disability, and you can't figure out how to teach him, it will only patronize him if you try.
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as far as freak goes - not sure how that relates. unless he's grabby, and then your probably in trouble. as for the better - what's he doing now? he might be doing better than you.
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oh wait did you mean to go out with and change him into a good citizen according to your rules and standards? no. he's not changing
2007-01-20 10:39:51 · answer #8 · answered by mike s 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-20 10:39:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hmmm... Might be a challenge but it's possible. I approach this in a more uh I can't thing of the word right now way but make him think about his future, ask him what he's expecting to do, make him know that he shouldn't screw up his life or anything just because of whatever. We all know school's a drag but maybe help him a little.
2007-01-20 10:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gainy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Thats what happens in a walk to remember
good girl
bad guy
guys forced to meet girl
eventually falls in love
he changes and realizes he's a good faithful person.
2007-01-20 10:43:54 · answer #11 · answered by physcochik2477 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋