My ex still says she really likes me, she still cares about me, and I am the only guy for her. But she is not sure of her emotions, I mean we broke up because she said she doesn't love me anymore, but after we broke up she tells me she doesnt see herself with anyone but me. Recently I figured out that she has mixed feelings and really isnt sure what she wants. This really hurts and I want to know what you guys think. Should I wait for her to figure things out or should I forget about her and end everything and anything that might happen in the future?? All in all should i move on or wait a while because I really love this girl at one point she did too. It really hurts you know when you are trying to move on but you are not sure if your girl loves you or not. Soo please help me.
2007-01-20 10:23:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in a position much like your ex girlfriend's right now. So, I think I have a different mindset than most. I think the best thing for you to do is begin to move on. You shouldn't punish yourself by waiting around and getting this wishy washy stuff from her. Chances are she probably really in confused about how she feels and it takes time to figure that stuff out. You'll probably only end up getting hurt over and over again until she makes up her mind regardless of what the final outcome is. So I say move on and give her space to figure out what she wants. Moving on doesn't mean you have to go out and find some other serious girlfriend right away, just give yourself time to have fun without being committed to some one. There's plenty of chances to have happiness in life without being in a relationship. Give yourself the chance to have that happiness. Let her figure out her own stuff without you...it's tough, but she's the only one that can decide what she feels.
2007-01-20 10:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by MissyM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean i have the same problem with my ex, so i will just tell you how i see it, first i tried to move on and forget about him and it didn't really work that well, i dated around and i kept comparing those guys to my ex because i still loved him, so that didn't work, but as of right now i am waiting for him to figure out what he wants so my advice just wait for a bit and then move on if it is taking too long
2007-01-20 10:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by JennLee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u think u guys have a future together then i would wait but only for a lil while, u dont wanna waste too much time waitin for her for her to decide she wants someone else, also i find it hard to believe that u could fall out of love with someone and then feel like they are 'the one', i think she just wants u to want her and not be with anyone else but if she meets someone she will try them...move on
2007-01-20 10:28:38 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to be the one to suffer from her indecisiveness. Give her a chance to sort out her feelings and come clean to you. If she has such a hard time, maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. My advice: move on and find a girl who's whole-heartedly into you and KNOWS what she wants. Life's too short to wait around for someone to "figure themselves out."
2007-01-20 10:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by wasabiwithyoursushi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't exist. Give her space. Chances are, since you are on Yahoo! Answers looking for relationship advise, I'd range your age at around 17... So, yeah, there are more guys for her and ladies for you. Find another lady to distract you.
2007-01-20 10:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes playing games.one day she loves u then she don't.tell her to chose which one.
2007-01-20 10:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by MISTYKAL M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat feet
2007-01-20 10:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋