okay. So at my school this is a boy I have known for...forever. okay 3-1/2 years. and this is the first year we are in middle school together and now the iron dating curtian has been lifted. in other words, EVERYONE is dating EVERYONE. It's SO not that I want to date him because of thats wut everyone else is doing. I just. We are friends. And I thought I didn't like him. Maybe I don't. But then A girl I know said she liked him and then all of a sudden I got all fluttery in my stomahce and Now i want to stuff a valentine in his locker but not sign it.
I am SO sorry that this is not clear to the point but that is excatly my point(*and feelings:(!)
2007-01-20 10:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AND now his schedule changed so he is in my math, geography and chior classes. he is really nice and sweet. he is like me, he doesn't care what people think and is way more mature than his age. this othr girl is (no offence toward hir) well, not someone too nice or cute. she also whacks people on the head.
ty 4 all ur answers!!!
2007-01-22 11:42:19 · update #1
tell him, that maybe you want to be more than friends. if he doesnt want to, then go back to being friends. but dont let it get akward between you. just act like you did before. he'll nevr be your boyfriend if you don't ask him. its worth it, you just have to do it and get it over with. if this isnt the best advice, sorry. im a 6th grader. i went through something like this. you see i broke up with my boyfriend, and he thinks were back together, and i thought that we wer friends, and now i dotn want to be either. i dont know what to do.
2007-01-20 10:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by blue_eyed_brunette527 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. I was in this place last year when I was in seventh grade. I made what I think now is the dumbest thing I could have done. I had a really good friend and I asked him to be my boyfriend. I thought I really liked him, felt the same way you just described, etc. etc. We went out for like a week, then it was just awkward so we broke up. We barely talk right now. So maybe you should try to keep being friends right now. You can give him a valentine, just as friends; that would be a good idea. Hope everything goes okay. =) Oh! And the everyone's dating everyone thing? That's so dumb. Dude, don't go with that. Guys will appreciate you a lot more if you don't.
2007-01-20 18:22:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are far to young to worry about such things.
However if you are jealous( which is what the fluttering in the stomach is all about) then tell him that you like him.
Guys this age don't care about valentines, and all the head games that go with anonymity of the intended valentine.
Are you sure that you just are not feeling 'left out' because everyone else is dating, and you are not?
Don't screw with the boys head, if you don't know for sure if you like him or not.
2007-01-20 18:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well at your age you should not be all that serious. So if you think he is a friend, what is the harm in giving him a valentine.....as a friend at your age? He might feel real nice from that. Hopefully he is a nice kind of boy and doesnt take it any other way.
2007-01-20 18:11:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hay,
I have a little sister and she is middle school too.. She goes through the same things you go through, although she is really bold. If you like him..just flirt with him a little, but don't make it quiet so noticable..and if he flirts with you try and play hard to get. And if you don't know if he likes you or not...try flirting with another guy infront of him and see how he reacts..and about the Valentine..just send it to him and if your scared of what he will say just make it anonymous and wait till he gets it to see if he likes it or not..and if he does, let him know it's from you..and if he doesn't he won't ever know who sent it to him..and just move on..hope I helped..and I hope I wasn't to harsh or forward or anything like that.
2007-01-20 18:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kristen R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, let's see, first and foremost i think it's better to wait on dating, guys are just distractions. school is most important. ok, now that i've said that let me ask you this. this other girl is she your best friend, associate, or just someone you know? if it's your best friend she shouldn't be going after a guy you kinda knew for a while. it sounds like the guy and you are good friends. sounds like you like him, i suggest you guys continue to be friends and become the best of friends. it makes for a great foundation when you become older and more mature enough to deal with the dating game
2007-01-20 18:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by sunshyne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all figure out if you realy do like him!
Then you should do that secret locker thing. Don't stress out bout it! IF it's ment 2 b the moment WILL come 4 u 2!
2007-01-20 18:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by tori 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that if u really like him u should give it a try let him know how u feel its wayyyy better than keeping it on the inside and having it eat u down. So I think u should give him a valentine signed with your name on it.
2007-01-20 18:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by oompaloompa2718 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww that is so cute anyway if you think you may like this boy alittle send him a valentine card instead and ask him to be your valentine let him know that you like him dont be scared its nothing wrong with liking someone but just dont get to grown up keep it at your age group level but i think that is so sweet. only if you like him not because someone else likes him ok good luck sweetie
2007-01-20 18:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by shorty4475860 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your best friends with this guy but also feel like you have more feelings for him, ask yourself is losing his friendship, worth it if the realationship doesn't work out. More then likely you'll not be friends after a break-up.
2007-01-20 18:11:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋