alright..i got this friend whose had a crush on this girl for like 7 years and i just started having feelings for her...and i just found out that he liked her. Also im not sure if she like me or not. I wanna make my move but my friend also like her so i really dont know what to do. I was going to do something for her on valentines day but he's also doing something for her. Dont say pretend you dont know cuz he told me himself PLZ HELP ME!!
2007-01-20 09:48:55 · 12 answers · asked by Burningice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
******* go for it. If you let things hold you back all your life you will get nowhere. Your mate doesnt seem to be making his move ...
2007-01-20 09:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your Pal likes this girl, then she is off limits to you. Your friendship is more important then any person who could possible come between you. Don't do it, there are so many other girls out there for you. You'll hate your self if you go threw it and your friend will hate you even more. Plus you have to wonder what kind of women would string along two guys at the same time, knowing that they are good friends and she is coming between them. Makes you think twice about what moral standers she has.
2007-01-20 10:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend's crush, girlfriends, ex-girlfriends, sister, etc is off limits if you plan on being best friends for a long time. The world have so many girls to choose from. You do not have to be with the one he likes, this will hurt him and he will not be your best friend any longer. Now, if you do not care about that then go right ahead and do as you plan to do. But, if you care about your friend, find another love.
2007-01-20 09:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're friend has had a crush on this girl for 7 YEARS, DO NOT break his heart and make a move. Thats not right. Thats your friend. Bro's B4 Hos buddy.
2007-01-20 09:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah bros before hos rhymes but is it the right thing to do, maybe. tell him that you think shes not that bad, and you kinda like her, see how his reaction is. then start talkin to her, get to know her, find out if shes really worth making things difficult for, find your inner balls to work up enough courage to maybe at least ask her if she likes you. then if she does, make you move if your home boy hasnt already, if he gets mad at you, tell him that he shoulda made the move, and that its just a girl so he can get over her. if he still is mad at you KICK HIM TO THE CURB!
2007-01-20 09:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dan The Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey,im a 13 year old boy...
what you should do is tell ur friend u like her too, then ask the girl who she likes better...
now can u answer this question..
what should i do if a girl liked me and i liked her back, but were both shy enough not to do anything, what should i do??
2007-01-22 12:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friend about it. Chances are even if you make somethign happen with this woman, your friend will be trying to **** her til the end of tiem anyhow. Find another woman would be the best bet.
2007-01-20 09:54:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends liked her for seven years, then you make the move. Don't wait around.
And just ask her, straight up.
2007-01-20 09:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Yo Im Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your friend can see eye to eye once you two discuss it. you don't want to pick a chick over your friend because you may need him later down the line, who knows she may not even be worth it.
2007-01-20 09:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by nbmama2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
worst I was in love with my brothers girl friend...they broke up and I was crushed..I would never see her again..I ain't proud about that..but the heart wants what the heart wants...I guess...
2007-01-20 09:52:59 · answer #10 · answered by Kingofreportedabuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋