Help me change!!! Im 13 and I need ur help?

Question

I have lots of probs right now! I dont know wat to do! All my friends want me to do things like drugs and drink and smoke and crap and I know its wrong but I keep doing it all! I am scared they wont accept me if I don't do them so I just go along w/it all and then get drugged up or high and then I 4get everything that happened so I go do something Stupid with some guy I meet, usually 15 year olds or older guys which I know is a little strange but I can't control myself anymore! It's getting out of hand and I have realized that this weekend and don't know wat to do!? Also I am really really really scared b/c I think I might be pregnant because I got pissed at my parents last month and went to my boyfriends house and did it and I missed my period so I think im pregnant and am freaking out! PLEASE HELP ME GET MY LIFE ON TRACK! Wat to do?!

Answer 1

First find out if your are pregnant with a home test you can buy over the counter, don't take the test at home then throw it away because parents sometime go threw the garbage, hopefully your not...stay away from your friends who are using because you may end up doing other stuff that will get you in trouble, your friend will not be around when you get in trouble so just remember that. Your Parents do have your best interest at heart so talk to them about your problems...

Answer 2

Well it's really up to you. If you really want to change you can do it. You must realize that the people who will only hang out with you if you get high with them are not your friends. SO who cares if you lose them?? They have no interest in your well-being. They don't care about you so why should you care about them?? If you don't go out and get high then you probably won't go and have unprotected sex with older guys, who again don't give a s**t about you. You have to have some respect for yourself first and then people around you will respect you. As far as your potential pregnancy, you need to find out now if you are indeed pregnant so you can go get yourself an abortion asap!! There is not a 13 year old in the world who can handle a kid of their own. Don't let some little mistakes now ruin the rest of your life. You can move past this and get yourself straightened out!!

Answer 3

OK, first you need to calm down and look at the facts. If these people are your friends, I would invest in a new set of friends and drop these quick. You will find as you get older only the true ones stick around. I would see if there is a way that you could go to a Planned Parenthood-type place and get a pregnancy test. Have you talked to you boyfriend about this? Do your parents know you are sexually active? Maybe if you can find a way to talk to your parents they can guard you with the proper tools like sex education, condoms, birth control if they are so free and willing. I used to hear a saying that said 'if you can't talk to your parents about having sex, then you shouldn't be having it.' Yeah, I know, I thought that was lame back then and you probably know do, too. But that's OK. My point is that if you can't talk to someone about your sex life than you shouldn't be having one. Having sex and doing drugs are serious grown-up things to do that sometimes give you grown-up outcomes so if you aren't willing to talk about them with your parents than it's OK just wait until you're totally ready. But I would still go ahead & go to the clinic and talk to someone and get a test!!! If you are pregnant, you need to decide what you are going to do and if you plan on including your boyfriend in that. Your going to find yourself having to grow-up faster because you won't be the kid anymore you'll have your own kid who will look up to you. So you have to decide the options and the clinic will talk to you all about those. I sincerly wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 4

I know how you feel. I have some friends who does exactly that when we hang out but for some reason they never really pressured me to the point of losing our friendship, just at least I try.

In your case, I would much rather be alone than do something that I know is not good for me or that could ruin a chance for a good future.

If you think you are pregnant, take a pregnancy test, and if you are, have a sit with mom and dad and talk to them about it. This may not turn out well, but at least your honest. And whatever you do, take care of yourself and give your baby a chance for a bright future. No drink or drugs!

Answer 5

you need to take things one at a time. First, as hard as it may be, tell your parents that you wnat to get some counseling and talk to someone go to a drug store and get one of the pregnancy tests before you tell them tell them that you may be pregnant. You need to get some self esteem and find friends that don't want to get you into the drugs and the like. If they were really your friends that would want you to do things good for you and not just use you to make them feel better about themselves. Remember even people that we think have it all, like Lindsey Lohan, sometimes need counseling, a person to talk to, to get their lives together. you will find people who like you because you do not do those things like smoking and doing drugs and they wil be better friends. I hope things work out for you!!

Answer 6

first off, if your friends keep presuring you into drugs KICK THEM TO THE CURB! get new friends that you know are doing the right things, be around positive people. have you talked to anyone like a pastor of some random church, or like some adult that you trust? if your pregnant or you think you are, go piss on the stick and find out, if you are, you have two options accept it and become a mother, or deny it and abort your child. if i were you i would talk to my parents...i know you prolly hate doing that, but its the best thing to do.

Answer 7

Your real freinds wouldn't make you feel like you had to smoke or drink. You should tell them no because if you do start drugs and / or drinking, your in for alot of trouble.
If you think your pregnant, you need to tell someone you trust and ask them to get you a pregnantcy test.
If you are, you better sit down with your parents and talk about it..
Email me if you need more help [e-mail]

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Please go and get help. You need alot of help you're not going to get on here. Just talk to your parents...they'd rather have you get your life back on track even if they are mad, which they will be. 1st, you need to calm down. When you're 13, your period can be irregular anyway, you may just be late or miss one anyway. this does not mean you are pregnant. 2nd, DROP THESE PEOPLE THAT SAY THEY ARE YOUR FRIENDS. THEY ARE NOT. If they were, then they'd accept your beliefs and not make you get high. This is going to get you nowhere. You need to realize there is a network of people that will be pulling for you. It takes more strength to recover than to revert, and people will admire you if you choose to recover, and shun you if you don't. If you ever need to talk, my email is [e-mail]. :) try to get back on the right path, I know you can.

Answer 10

WOW

first of all i know its hard but stop doing all the stupid stuff your friends tell you too even if they stop liking you your life is in serious danger in being around them

If they dont liek you anymore they rnt your firends im sure you can find other friends

are you gaining weight??

take a pregnancy test