Instead of doing something like, "Due to mutual differences we have decided to postpone the nuptials indefinitely..."
2007-01-20 08:53:47 · 23 answers · asked by dex9753 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I know you're hurting right now, but don't do that. She will get hers in the end, don't worry about that. Don't let this get you bitter.
2007-01-20 08:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Instead say...
"We regret to inform you of our decision to postpone our nuptials indefinitely". Signed, Bill and Jill
1) Keep your response classy and tasteful
2) DO NOT look back at your fiance; leave the whore in your rear-view mirror
3) MOVE ONE with your life and find somebody else who is worthy of your time and attention
4) DO NOT have anything to say to her...about anything!
5) DO NOT make a haibit of taking a sh*t and stepping back in it!
6) LOVE somebody else!
2007-01-20 11:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about this. Life has a way kicking right where it hurts sometimes when you least expect it. I would agree that you should send out notices as soon as possible. I would leave out the blame part though. Your friends and hers will know the truth soon enough and form their own feelings and thoughts. In being discreet you would put yourself in a better light and it would show others of your great character. I think it is time for you to take a vacation and just get away for a while. Time heals all wounds.
2007-01-20 09:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by freesample1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are perhaps the coolest person alive. She must pay. My ex fiance slept around on me sent me an email telling me how worthless I was. I forwarded that email to my fiance's father, who happens to be a pastor, it was a good time. It still brings joy to me. So if your fiance cheats you must make them pay. So that way your fiance's family knows how much of a whore my fiance is, also another thing that is really fun is to steal letterhead from a Dr's office and send them a letter saying they contracted a venereal disease. It is really fun. You really are cool.
2007-01-21 09:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are empty words when a person hurts, but it's best you find out before the wedding than after.
Mr and Mrs John Doe announce that the marriage of their daughter Jane to Mr John Hancock, which was arranged for 11th August, will now not take place.
2007-01-20 09:01:07 · answer #5 · answered by weddrev 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well, send the politically correct cancellation cards - but post the cheat pics on the internet
:-)
2007-01-20 09:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just send out a postment. Just wedding has been postponed. Everyone one will find out soon enough thru no rumour control. Dont marry if she is not ready to commit.
2007-01-20 08:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES! YES! YES !!!!! Once a cheat, all ways a cheat! If she cheated and you have pics. it would serve her right to be humiliated in front of her almost wedding guests. Plus a pic. speaks a thousand words. That's less explaining you have to do. I say go for it.
2007-01-24 04:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by Andi S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were in your shoes I would probably think like that too. Im really sorry that that happened to you. I know you are hurt but sending pictures would probably make everyone uncomfortable. If you really want everyone to know then just tell them but dont send pics of it.
2007-01-21 04:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lexi's mommy had twins! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it sounds tempting just take the high road and say due due to mutual differences...you'll feel better in the end.
2007-01-21 10:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Just drop it and say politely "we just weren't ready" I assure you people will know through the gossip links what happened. You'll be better looking like the dignified 'wronged man' than the bitter cheated upon spouse that never was.......
2007-01-20 08:58:33 · answer #11 · answered by zp055att 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋