there is an older woman at work who is very attracted to me, she has made it no secret that she would like to have sex with me. The only problem is that I am in a very serious relationship with someone already. Normally this would not be an issue for me because I don't believe in cheating on anyone. But here recently I have found myself thinkin about it more and more and wondering if I could actually get away with it. I know the answer most of you will give is don't do it and I agree. But give me reasons for and against going for it. This chick is super hot by the way.
2007-01-20 08:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by smitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I can give reasons for both sides.
1st against- Personally, I'm against fishing from the company pier. If things go bad, you can go down for sexual harassment. Remember, there is life at the office AFTER the deed is done. How will your work enviornment be? Can you deal with the guilt, if any?
Now for - She's hot, you want to sample what's around, and hey, talk about adding a bit of excitment to your life. If you can brush off any guilt you may have, and you don't get caught in a lie, then it's all good.
Also consider if it will really be just a one time thing, or can it develop into additional, future hook-ups.
If you're gonna do it, be smart about it. Oh, and be sure to use protection! Don't catch nothin' you can't throw back.
2007-01-20 09:02:18 · answer #1 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this question. Do you want to see your current relationship destroyed?
I did this same exact thing. The one night stand didn't end with just one night like it was suppose too. It spilled over into the work place and all kinds of problems came with it. It's really not worth it.
2007-01-20 08:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but my fiance got me a job working with him in a hotel as bar maid (he was the bar manager) this was years ago now, hence to say working so closely together did not work and when we split up it was hard working together afterwards, I had to quit the job, at least it was only a part time supplement job not my real job! I don't reccomend it to anyone as if the relationship turns bad you still have to carry on working together.
2016-05-24 01:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lorraine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pros: Gettting lucky Dugh :D , She might be more than a one nighter and you could get lucky more than once, if you both keep thing down low you may never get caught...
Cons: Fear of getting caught & Guilt is the Bigest problem, uther than that it is what if this happens game. Ask yourself this is it worth it ..?
2007-01-20 09:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of the long term effects. I cheated on a boyfriend and felt so terrible. we went out to dinner later and I cried like the whole time. if you care about your g/f it'll only leave you feeling dirty.
2007-01-20 08:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes many times
2007-01-20 08:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do it if u want to go it but after u do it u get this really dirty felling. when u look at ur girl friend u get this felling like u really need to tell her. well i wouldnt do it but im not in controll of u
2007-01-20 08:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by Aj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, cuz I loved her feet, and that's about it.
2007-01-20 08:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO IT ________NOW!!!
2007-01-20 08:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by don 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋