Why Do I Prefer to Date Hot Women?

Question

I find that attractive women are usually nicer, and easier to deal with. Why are over-weight and less attractive women so hard to get along with? Shouldn't they be more friendly and accomidating to compensate for their lack of physical beauty? What do you think?

Answer 1

I am not super skinny, nor huge. I am friendly, outgoing, personable.
It depends on the girl's self esteem, how she looks at herself as a whole. A big woman can be just as sexy as a skinny woman, it is all how she carries herself with confidence.
I don't find myself less attractive than a skinny size 3 nor do I find myself less attractive than a woman that has meat on her bones. I am me..either you like it or you don't. Every girl is different. Just like every guy is different.
Look beyond the physical attraction of any size woman, look deeper into their hearts and soul.

Answer 2

Sound a bit shallow... but.... If an over-weight woman is hard to get along with it could be she is being defensive because she doesn't want to get hurt...again. Being over-weight is usually associated with things other than medical. Usually they are feeding emotion and pain. Once they fix the emotion or pain...the weight tends to go off and stay off.

Thats the only reason I can think of that would cause someone to be difficult to get along with.

However, I try to find a woman that I like, I get along with etc.... and take her for however she looks...hot or not. It's the inside that matters after all.

Answer 3

ya i understand why you would think that some who are overweight might be nice to compensate like you said or maybe they dont even care about and are nice people on the other hand they might be so upset and have such a lack of confidence because they lack physical beauty that they show anger and hostiliy towards others

Answer 4

Because you're shallow?

All else being equal, wouldn't everybody prefer to date 'Hot' women?
You've got two women - identical educations, jobs, intelligence, sense of humor, interests, etc. so on so forth - both same personality types. One is athletic & pretty, the other is overweight and mannish. Is this a hard decision?

Answer 5

You just might treat the good looking ones better than the ones that are not that hot.Remember its not whats on the outside its whats on the inside that counts and as you get older you will find that out

Answer 6

maybe becuase you might be an attractive gut, and other attractive women like you and feel more comfortable with you and unnattractive women my be intimadated by you because they feel that you want ever give them the time of day. or it could be because you treat them mean and not notice it and you treat the attractive girls better and it makes the unattractive girls mad at you and they treat you mean in return.

Answer 7

Dude that sounds so shallow. BUT i do think that you have to be attracted to someone to have a relationship with them. if its working for you then whatever but not all unattractive people are mean. Being pretty is just a plus

Answer 8

to compensate for their lack

These ladies sense your patronizing attitude immediately.
It matters not what the women look like or how hot they are. You treat them like they are inferior and they will respond appropriately.

Approach one of these hotties as though they owe you something "to compensate" and they will drop you like a rock.

Answer 9

The reason people who appear less atractive to you may seem less aprochable beacause instead of trying to "make up" for their lack of beauty is they try to push people away in fear of being hurt by them.

Answer 10

i use to be a little over wieght but now that im skinny i have more confidence in who i am. larger women and unattractive women usually have less self confidence, and they usually put up a "fence" becasue they are use to people making fun of them..