I really like this guy on the b-ball team. Im the manager. My fend told him that i like him. and he told her that he likes ne, but he told her that he doesnt thnik i really like him. well the problem is i rly dont know him. i have never rly talked o him before and i dont have any classes with him. also im rly shy. so hw wont make the first move. i have to. wat should i do? i dont even know him. wat should i say to him? help me here.
2007-01-20 08:38:01 · 7 answers · asked by -adri; Your my wonderwallll. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well... .you already know what you need to do... TALK TO HIM and GET to know him.... you need to talk to him yourself also and not have your friends do it for you.... you just have to start talking to him casually... ask him how he's doing.. some of his favorite things... stuff like that... and flirt with him.. give compliments.... compliment him on his b-ball moves or if they won.... then you can if you feel comfortable ask him to do something with you sometime... or ask for his number if you are gutsy enough so you can talk on the phone.. or email... or something.. you just need to start talking to him! don't let what could be a good thing pass you by or you will regret it if you don't do anything and just sit back and wait for something to happen! good luck!!! :)
2007-01-20 08:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay I am a shy girl too!!! First of all even if you did not know that he likes you it is not always bad to be a move maker haha. Guys like confident girls. And even if you were to ever get turned down it builds character. So anyways. I think that you should just talk to him. Go up and be like so how has your week been going. Or you could just be like I am and talk to him about B-ball or what he does for fun. Or just tell him hey I think you seem pretty cool wanna go out for lunch sometime.
2007-01-20 08:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!!!
This would be exciting. Why do you feel youare not good enough to go up and say hi to this man.
If you heard he likes you well what to hell...All you have to do is have the coursge to stand up and say hi...how are ya today. Small talk leads into large talk. Take a chance...live on the wild side.
This first move is the word HELLO. Don't be scared it's just a word
2007-01-20 08:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
c tha problem wit u ur dumb and u need to stop aktin shy and if u realy liked him or if he really like u u would of went and told him ur self that u like him and if he really like u he would stop bein a punk and kum say summin to and stop sendin messages bak in forth like ya stupid or summin stop bein skary and talk to ..........
2007-01-20 08:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by sha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange som one-on-one session for u and him and get 2 know him more.
2007-01-20 08:58:51 · answer #5 · answered by herimos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him about bball, or idk.. just bring up random crap. if he likes you it wont matter what you talk to him about!! just talk.. after that, just let him make the next move.. normally guys have to make the first move hunny... dont let him make you do them all!!
2007-01-20 08:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile and talk to him.
2007-01-20 08:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by skol312000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋